Guys, I'm pretty & smart. but why no man likes me?

[Anonymous]

I'm one of the famous kids in my school. Everybody considered me "pretty & body goals" bcs my appearance follows the beauty standard. I'm one of the tallest girls in my school. I also considered "smart" bcs I got 1st place in my school & won several national competitions in my hobby. They said I have "good manners" in how I act, such as when I'm eating, talking, etc (I've been taught to act like that) and have a "good personality" because I'm friendly & smile a lot. They said I have a happy aura. Actually I've never hated anyone in my life bcs I don't wanna risk to messing w people— so yea I'm doing my best to be nice & go out of my way to help people.

So I don't understand why no guy has ever shown any kind of interest in me when everyone (including guys) keeps telling me I'm "perfect"? Everyone is always surprised when I say I've never been asked out or confessed by anyone. To be loved by someone, I know no one is actually "perfect" and I'm tryin to figure out whats actually wrong w me. I once have obsessed with "perfection" before, so knowing that I've been tried to be "perfect" but still no guys likes me is make me insecure. Thank you

[NamerOfStars]

What makes you so sure they don't? Getting rejected sucks, and if you truly do come across as ranking high in looks and intelligence as well as social status, guys may think you'd reject them as not being up to your standards. They may think it impossible that you're not already with someone. They may see you as less approachable in general.

Now, last I checked, it's not 1950 anymore, and a gal asking a guy out doesn't carry the same stigma, but if you're the type who can't bring herself to do that, or just doesn't want to come across as desperate, you can still approach guys and just TALK to them, having normal, non-romance-oriented conversations. When they get to know you a bit, they'll start seeing you as more human and less an ideal.

[Avicenna]

I'll bet lots of them like you but think you''ll reject then

[DryGermanGuy]

Because „perfect“ things are stored in a museum, on a pedestal, unsuitable for daily life.

[boggboss]

What do u do to show men u like your attracted to them

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Have you not seen what man have become? By man I mean humans. You don’t want that. People always say “get a real man”. I know real man, you want GOOD man

[Zenit93]

You likely have high demands given your social status. A lot of men don’t have the desire to fulfill those demands. It’s a big risk.

[Guardian45]

You're talking to the WRONG GUYS! Look for sapiosexuals, like me.