Why do men like me so much when I'm not even that pretty?

[Anonymous]

I'm definitely pretty but there's girls out there who are way more beautiful than I am. It's not in my imagination that all attention is always on me, for example yesterday in a club a group of guys all agreed that I'm the prettiest girl here and that I should know that probably every guy there wants something from me. I can never talk to a guy just on a platonic level because he always ends up wanting to be with me. This sounds so arrogant but I promise I'm not I'm actually very insecure plus I'm really antisocial and shy which is why I'm so confused

[therealricksanchez]

Maybe your perception about yourself is not that accurate, since you admitted being kind of insecure, while at the same time, lots of guys have told you you're beautiful. Maybe you're prettier than you think. Beauty is not based on only one standard criteria, it can vary, so, you can be sexy as a girl next door, for example, or beautiful, such as having a cute face, or hot, such as a model, etc. There are many ways in which men can find women attractive.

[Billlewis]

It may be because of your personality and the way you carry yourself. I think men, in general are often more attracted to a woman who is very confident and assertive. I'm not saying that you are, but if you're fairly average looking, and lots of guys are interested in you, there has to be a reason why, so your personality would seem to be the most logical answer.

[Emelina]

Own it girl! Pretty or not don't ever compare yourself to the other girls. If you get the attention from guys, hell just take that as a compliment and just be you. Don't become a b... ch or think your better than the anyone, be honest, sweet, funny, and stand up for yourself- don't take crap from anyone. Hugsxxx 😀

[Emelina]

Thanks for the MHG 🙂

[misogynistic_pig]

Some men look for women not very attractive because they believe they are easier than the most attractive women.

[Sparkie460]

You probably also have a great personality. Personality and looks stand out more.

[slatyb]

You are more attractive than you believe.

[In_Trance]

maybe their perception is different