Guys only like me because I'm pretty?

I know this is going to sound very arrogant so apologies in advance, but I am (or at least I have been led to believe I am) very pretty. I get a lot of guys liking me and asking me out. Most of my guy friends have tried to get with me or have asked me out.

But how do you tell the difference between when a guy likes you just for your looks and when a guy actually really likes you as a person? Because I can't tell and I really don't want to go out with a guy who only likes me because he thinks I'm pretty. I feel like in that scenario we would both just end up disappointed with each other.

People tell me I'm pretty or beautiful so often, far more often than I get complimented on my personality. This really makes me worry that I don't have a nice personality and being good looking is the best thing about me, which makes me feel really terrible and insecure about myself. I don't want to spend time with people who only like me because I'm pretty because it only makes me feel worse about myself and my personality.

So how do you know when a guy likes you for YOU rather than the way you look?
Guys only like me because I'm pretty?
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