Am I being dramatic here with my boyfriend or no?

[Anonymous]

Today my boyfriend text me saying ‘We should meet today’ so I said okay well I’ll be home for 7 I’m just busy at the moment. And then he replied with ‘Yeah just let me know what you’re doing and I’ll see what I’m doing at that time’ but I’m really annoyed about this? It’s making me feel like he’s expecting me to wait around to know what he’s doing at that time? Am I being really dramatic here, now I’m writing this I feel like I’m being dramatic since I’m reading it out in my head. I didn’t reply with anything crazy I just said yeah or we can just do another day if you’re unsure of you’re plans. But deep down I’m really mad? Am I actually being selfish here? I get that I’m busy right now but at that time I won’t be?

[Guy13]

I don’t think so. You want to be partly pampered here and he should be thinking along the terms of scheduling bite to eat, walk around lake, or something makes it obvious he is planning for. We all have a desire to be desired and important in the lives of the ones we love.
Maybe, he will grow into this knowledge. Most guys don’t get that until 27-40. And when they do get it, the younger girls seeking it come out the woodwork.

If you try to Xplain to him, “enough the the Nag…you Hag” reaction 🤷🏻‍♂️ Learn the hard way lesson. Good luck 🍀

[Asker]

Yeah I figured not to nag. I’m not really sure how else to go about it. But I don’t wanna jump to say yes if he is free?

[Guy13]

It is another example of how a little bit of planning and thoughtfulness can same so much 💩 to deal with….

[TheSpaceGnome]

overthinking is bad

[In_Trance]

smh yes