Why won't women be honest?

[Anonymous]

With me and just tell me I'm ugly? It's obvious I have never been in a relationship, always been rejected by women I'm attracted to. I'm a virgin I have never even held hands or kissed a woman at 28. I'm such a loser I have also never had a job where I had enough money to live on my own. I'm also short at 5'9 and a ginger. I'm obviously ugly so what gives?

[Guy13]

Cause they can get hurt being honest in today’s world. 👻 👻👻👻👻👻👻 is the alternative

[Asker]

I wouldn't hurt anyone I can handle it I'm used to bullying. I can handle honesty even if it's blunt.

[Guy13]

You are no different than the male Slut to them. Both of you coukd go postal if wrong thing said…

[Asker]

I literally wouldn't

[irifebeck]

That defeatist attitude doesn't help. You need to gain confidence in yourself, stand up straight, go take a shower, dress nicely, be an overall good person and you'll attract plenty of women. Confidence is everything, people can sense insecurity and are turned off by it. Your looks isn't it, there's always someone.

[Asker]

I do shower and no I'm ugly and that is what it is

[Asker]

You can't force women to be attracted to a short ugly ginger guy

[User3191989]

He's eventually going to need a job that can provide for both him and her though. That should be his main goal right now. Women want a guy who can provide, and right now he can't

[irifebeck]

@User3191989 He's not going to get a job either if he's got low self-esteem :/. At least a good one.

[User3191989]

Sorta true. But not exactly.

[Asker]

The last 6 interviews would say otherwise plus why did they require to have the webcam on? Seems like they were going based on looks

[Asker]

Harder to get a job too when you're ugly

[User3191989]

What were you interviewing for

[Asker]

A bunch of jobs mostly retail

[irifebeck]

@User3191989 Not to be that kind of person 😬 but "research suggests that self-esteem is beneficial when searching for a job because people with high self-esteem receive better interview evaluations, get more job offers, and more often accept a job than people with low self-esteem."...

[Asker]

I will try to work from home jobs as for most of those they don't care what you look like

[User3191989]

Likely not your looks. You might just not have the right interview approach

[irifebeck]

@User3191989 yeah that too.

[Asker]

@irifebeck women don't want a short guy who doesn't make much money who is also a ugly ginger

[Asker]

Also being a Virgin at my age might be a redflag for women

[irifebeck]

Well, if you want to be sad and complain about your looks. Like you want to hear your ugly so bad but not want to try and look better, mentally and physically? Just don't post.

[Asker]

I can try that won't make women find an ugly ginger guy attractive

[Asker]

I'm ugly told you

[LazerBean]

Because it's unnecessary to tell you that you're ugly even if it's true. If you really want to be called ugly, though, feel free to post a picture in the "how do I look" topic and I will gladly give you a brutally honest opinion.

[Asker]

Profile pic is up so be brutally honest

[LazerBean]

Yeah you're on the ugly side. 3 or 4 in looks alone. Could get up to a 6 if you had a great personality and took good care of yourself, but could easily get down to 1 if you are crappy and whiney.

[Asker]

Yeah I knew I was ugly

[LazerBean]

Good job.

[Asker]

Good job?

[serious]

Just because you have been single, you never touched or kissed a woman does not mean you are a loser.

There are lots of things you can accomplish in life even while being 100% single.

[ED_RN]

You need to gain some confidence and self worth. No woman would be attracted to someone who doesn't even like themselves. It's the exact way for women. No one can love you until you love yourself. And women find gingers very attractive so being a ginger has nothing to do with it. I've slept with a few hot gingers.

[Asker]

Maybe some gingers are attractive but I'm ugly look at my profile pic

[Anonymous]

Nobody wants to hear they are ugly.

[Asker]

I wouldn't care I know I am

[Asker]

Look at profile pic it's true