What does it say when a man is in a relationship with no job?

[lala_candy]

He also doesn’t have ambitions. And also makes his girlfriend pay for everything

[cryscrys1]

Some people are like that naturally take it easy. That’s not wrong of him not wanting to follow the modernized life. Being ambitious and all that doesn’t click to his soul. It’s fake we all know that he maybe can’t fake it.. so he is being real organic to you.
If you do not like that it’s ok to upgrade to an “ambitious man” but he will have other flaws too like I don't know putting you down how Jessica is doing better than you et.
We all have this weird bad flaws I just hope you adjust to it easily.
Do what’s best for you

[oh_k789]

It's a surprise someone is out there who can understand :).

[cryscrys1]

Lol 🥺😂 you can relate easily to others the old saying before you judge place yourself in their shoes isn’t wrong elders aren’t that stupid sharing this virtue saying lol

[FunnyGiy]

Someone shouldn’t make their girlfriend pay for everything. If she offers to pay being nice that is one thing.

There is some people who are out of work and are in a hard spot. But if someone refuses. Seems like a gold digger and using for money.

She needs to stop enabling him and stop letting him use her. I say the same for women who do this kind of thing. Won’t work and feel entitled to someone’s wallet.

I mean. Hell. If two people agree that they want that kind of relationship. Then fine if it makes them both happy and irs not one sided.

But he needs to stop using someone with a good heart for money. Unfortunately people with good hearts. Need to look out for people who will use them. They deserve another good hearted person.

Bur many times they don’t want to see something in someone

[Anonymous]

He needs to go. It’s normal to not know what you want to do in life, I get that. But he should at least have the will, the ambition to want to work until he finds out what he really wants to do w his life. Especially if he’s around your age. He’s a freeloader, no self respecting man would ever display this type of behavior. The girl needs to walk, she’s only enabling it by letting him get away w it. I could see if he was working on writing movies, or trying to come up w a business that he’s working on hard, some people have to go through that before they become successful. But doesn’t sound like he’s doing a damn thing at all.

[EmmaMary]

Personally I would call such a person a lazy bone idled, pathetic, lowlife parasite.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Summeroflove]

He’s using her for money and she doesn’t HAVE to pay for anything. In fact. She’s probably just enabling him. Because he’s using her good heart.

Depends on why he is jobless. But no ambition. This can be a problem.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

Don't try too hard to analyze his psychology. Analyze his effect on people around him. It's bad. And if there's little hope of him fixing it, he needs to be thrown away even if he'll just die. No one should have to feel responsible for a guy who doesn't even put any effort into reciprocating all the things people give to him.

[Kiss_Me]

A person's lack of character usually does not reveal itself until its time to take responsibility for their actions. These include a lack of actions or positive decisions to educate themselves or provide for themselves.

The guy is a loser. Time to find a new guy.

[D-Pad_Chad]

It's rare for me to say this, because I don't run into this scenario often, but that's not a man. He might be a shell of a man due to some trauma, but just like we men do not have to suffer women past, neither do they have to suffer ours.

If his laxadaisical ways are rooted in trauma he needs to deal with it and start putting in the effort. If he's lazy tbh I'd leave him. But that's me.

[Smoothing]

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It really depends. If this man you are talking about is in his twenties, and dating a woman in her fifties, and the woman is giving him everything, then, he is a sugar baby.

But if he is in his twenties and dating a woman in her twenties, and he is dependent on the woman, then is is simply a bum.

[Twalli]

He's a leech. My girlfriend's sister's ex-husband is like that. He did carpentry, which my girlfriend's dad helped him get certified in, then quit when he joined the military. After his military service ended he decided he didn't want to work again. After his divorce from his first wife (who he had 4 children with), he dated and married a richer woman. They are now divorced and he's dating a richer woman than his second wife.

[Twalli]

Now in my case, I just don't have a job yet, but I am intending to get one. My girlfriend can't afford to pay for everything, so really our parents are.

[inhua]

if you believe in true gender equality, there shouldn't be anything to say about him because if it were a woman in a relationship but has no job, ambitions and lets the boyfriend pay for everything, no one would really care or blame her.

[Chazmatazz269]

You can’t “make” anyone do anything. If she chooses to pay for everything, that’s on her. If he has otherwise enslaved her in some fashion, call the police. Otherwise this is pure nonsense.

[Noahzaid]

It doesn’t mean that he isn’t ambitious If he isn’t working but making his girlfriend pay for anything shows how lazy and pathetic he is.

please answer to my recent post.

[MementoMori777]

It depends, there's people that struggle and then there's people that just don't want to help themselves, which one are you talking about?

[FireGodGoesSeeknFire]

I think we all know what is says. Are you wonder why can't see it.

[nawtee_me]

If she is still with him knowing this then she is a part of the problem too. She is allowing him to stay as he is and not change his ways. She should leave him at once...

[slatyb]

That's between him and his girlfriend. Is he the only man on her planet?

[chicosuave]

lol that funny. well girls wanted equality then there you go

[FilmGuy93]

That women’s insecurities open a lot of doors that they shouldn’t

[jimmy2]

Well in These times things are not as they seam I mean Covid took me out of my job. I off 7days a week and after 2.5 years Covid been so nasty so it like to judge the cover of a book

[zagor]

It means he has met the woman of his dreams.

[Anonymous]

It means he's not going to change or get a job. And you won't be able to change him.

[fonduegirl]

Man's a gold digger

[Jamie05rhs]

He sounds like a leech to me.

[MarMar123123]

Maybe depression?

[TroyDT2]

Lazy gigolo.

[Guardian45]

LOSE that Mofo!

[Anonymous]

She is a sucker.