Why is he trying to break me?

[Fzrz6455]

My ex boyfriend, called me stupid everyday, i finished my college, he didn't even tried for highschool. Its like he wants people to think i am stupid, he would call me names and humilate me, its like he wants everyone to hateme, he seems to be obsessed with attacking me and humilating me

[Smoothing]

I am sorry, to say this, but I think you need to see a therapist. There is a pattern in the questions you have continually asked.

You seem like you are suffering from past trauma. And you jeep blaming everyone around you about what is going on in your life. That is very unhealthy. Whatever it is, please see a therapist really soon. Otherwise, you will end up living a lonely life.

No one wants to be around people who are always victims. It may be that you are crying for help, but the sooner you see a therapist, the better.

The last thing you want, is for people to shut you out and stop listening to anything you say.

[ManOnFire]

Maybe he's angry about the breakup, and wants to project that on you.

[Fzrz6455]

No he s not he nevef cared 4 me

[ManOnFire]

But that doesn't mean he's not angry because he doesn't have you anymore. Narcissistic people can not have you and they'll still be angry simply because you aren't validating them.

[Summeroflove]

Well he better not anymore. Because he’s a piece of shit

[Truth0225]

Why you even wasting your time. You know ur a female right? U can pull so many other dudes. Fuck that guy

[Paul09]

Why does it affect you? He is the biggest dumbass. Crazy how negative people can affect us. You need to block all contacts with him. And leave him in the dust. No point of dwelling on it, he's winning when you let it affect you.

[Alex8736]

textbook example of someone with narcissistic personality disorder always shaming everyone without ever looking at themselves in the mirror. if i were you (which I'm not) i would block any form of contact

[Anonymous]

think of this as a positive. Your ex is helping filter out those who make unfair judgments and don't seek out your side of the story.

[Opinion Owner]

Letting it bother you is giving him too much power.