After going on one date with this guy he told me he thought he wanted to date. But realized he didn't and that he didn't have time for anything. That was after we had sex for the first time. (Before we started dating he hadn't been on a date in a long time and hadn't had sex either. At one point he was married but he was only married for three years. And he ended up getting a divorce) At the end of September, I went off on him because I thought he was lying I called him a liar and I asked him if he had sex with someone else. But then I apologized and told him that I understood about him not wanting to date. He said it was ok and that things happen. He said he wasn't lying about not wanting to date and that he hadn't had sex with anyone else. Then he asked me to come over and we had sex the last time I saw him was almost three weeks ago. And now I want to see him again but I'm trying to wait at least a month. So I don't come off as clingy but it's starting to get hard.
I have been talking to another guy that has asked me on a date to keep me distracted. I've been using the new guy trying to kind of ween myself off of this old guy a little. But it's difficult because I want to have sex with him again.
