What’s the best age gap when looking for committed relationship?

[Anonymous]

1-3

3-7

7-10

10-15

15-20

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[HighValue]

The relationships I have seen last the longest (40+ years of marriage plus time together before they were married) all were between 8 to 14 years age difference. In every one of those relationships though, both people had conservative morals/values so that likely played a large part in it too.

My advice would be to make sure that you are morally compatible, have compatible long term life goals (if one person wants lots of family time together at home, but the other wants a job where they frequently travel away from home it won't work out. The same goes if one partner wants kids and the other doesn't.), have a few things in common you enjoy doing together besides just intimacy/sexual things. You should also consider their past. If you want someone exclusive, don't get a partner that has a past of casual sex. If you want kids, when starting a NEW relationship the woman shouldn't be past 30 and the man shouldn't be past 50 regardless of the gap. After 35 for the woman and after 55 for the man, the chances of having a HEALTHY kid without learning disabilities decreases. (Significant sharp decrease for the woman and the man's ability decreases at roughly half the rate the woman's chances do. Man of 55 is on the same level as a woman of 35 for good fertility biologically.)

I know that is a lot of information, but I hope it is useful.

[Summeroflove]

It doesn’t matter. This depends on your standards and preferences. As long as someone isn’t a adult dating a minor. It’s fine.

Whether you like someone younger or older or the same age as you. What matters is your intentions. If you like someone whose single. Who isn’t a family member. Whose not underage or anything just wild like that.

Then feel free to ask him out. Love is what matters in a committed relationship.

[Looksnicholas]

I said 1-3, a tough decision but i guess knowing how my joints are feeling at 28, I couldn't date a 20 year old woman or 22 year old woman and struggle to keep up with her. Or her listen to my nagging about my joint pain, lol, I'm almost 30. Typo I spelt it as joint paint, ahahaha 😉😜

[D-Pad_Chad]

This isn't the question to ask. A better question is what's the best age ranges.
Women 18-27(men usually want a family, after 30 this becomes nigh impossible. )
Men 30 (usually by this age men have matured and are financially stable, able to support a family, even on lower end salaries.)

[Summeroflove]

Someone should be in it for love. Not money. She can make her own.

[matheus_mb]

I really don't think that there's a best age gap since people have different levels of maturity. But the older you are it gets really hard to handle the behavior of some younger people. I'm not old myself and I already feel that a 10 year old gap, right now, wouldn't work for me. Maybe in the future it'll change, let's see, no hurry.

[matheus_mb]

a 10 year* gap

[Jdjfjcjj]

in my opinion, Age gap is only necessary for women the younger they are as it helps ensure the man is at a point where he is mature, able to provide, have a purpose, and ready to commit.

For men, it's completely opposite.

[AllGoodNamesRGone]

When you truly love someone, age doesn't matter. Whether it is a difference of 2 years or 30 years, love is love.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Or you can just not answer the question...

[Anonymous]

Anything under 9 years. Anything larger than that while still possible, the success rate falls off dramatically

[msc545]

This is such an unimportant metric. Try "what is the best personality type" ?

[Guy13]

5-8 years.

[exitseven]

I said B but it is really within 10 years.

[TroyDT2]

The one that works for the couple.

[Danny_dan92]

1-6 years

[berkkgn]

i think 2-3

[Anonymous]

10-15 years.