Can a connection be built or does already have to be there?

[Justneedtokno]

Do you know that spark that attracts you to someone

[SnowedIn]

Both. There has to be one thing. And it's not just looks. Sure, it might be hair that makes me look the first time, but then it's, "oh, you like the vanilla latte too." And then you discover that you like the same books. Or, you find that they like spiders as pets and it's all off. You have to build the connection and subsequently maintain it but there has to be one tiny spark.

[ElvenMr]

Connection is built, but that spark can be there from the very first "Hi" or glaces at each other.

I'm not sure about the astrology part. It's interesting, but i don't trust it as if it's a fact. If you look into it's more complicated than it seems at first sight.

[DaveJord]

It can be built, but if not there to begin with then it hard to even what to be put out the effort.

[Guy13]

Astrology…Man destiny and ruled by creaturely objects…. that make sense se🤷🏻‍♂️

[Noahzaid]

I don’t believe in zodiac signs but for this questions sake,

I think leos are often misunderstood, People always interpret Us as Aries.

those childish features they’re talking about belong to Aries not leos.

Leos always want a serious role and respect.

I don’t like bright colors and I don’t like funny haircuts.

I like power and respect.

I’m a leader but I only lead myself unlike an Aries they want to lead everyone.

[nolabels]

I've many times had interests sparked within me that I was previously unaware of in myself when meeting someone new.

The connections were built. They were not always there upon first meeting.

[Havthrills]

It depends on the situation. Two people that are friends of friends could start hanging out and a connection will grow.

[Sixgunsound]

Are you aware of every potential mate that exists in the world? If not, how would a connection exist without you building it upon discovering them?

[RavVid]

Oh there are moments of I like you and you like me reciprocity. but I tend to think that it is built.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

From my personal experience it has to be there.

It flows naturally and the conversations are super easy and feel you like you known that person all your life.

Try building connection feels awkward and forced.

[Jamie05rhs]

It can definitely be built. You just have to have two optimists. You need two people willing to take a chance on each other.

[aaron210419]

Definitely built, there is no connection that is just already there.

[krin_m]

It can be very much built with effort and intention!

[NathanDavis]

as a Leo... I don't have these issues, lol

[Jennz6]

Have to work on it

[Andres77]

Needs to be there already…I think

[legalboxers]

sounds like Sags issues too

[EaterPeter]

Be there and built.