Am I a cougar to you?

[Smc08]

I’m 32 years old and I get hit on by men in their late teens and younger 20s more than people who are closer to my age. They seek me out. My last two relationships where when I was 28 and he just turned 22, then 31 and he was 23. Now there is this guy who is 21 who says he’s waited 2 years to talk to me and I think that might be the most flattering thing I’ve ever heard. I also think he’s very hot with the body of a Roman god. My rule was always if he’s not old enough to drink he’s not old enough for me. But now I kinda feel bad.

[DaveJord]

Yeah a cougar by definition- Cougar is a term used to describe an older woman who uses the same predatory sexual techniques as men, including focusing on members of the opposite sex who are much younger than she is.

So it depends because act like your not focusing on younger men, it's just them seeking you out. But I think there's a degree of Bull Shit involve in that.

You say guys your age less interested in you, we're as younger guys are. We'll younger guys are more susceptible to attractive looking women, and willing to tolerate high level of silliness just to achieve sexusl gratification... which in term makes easier to manipulate.

Older men are not going to be as willing to play games, or chase after a women just because she attractive. Younger men will. Older will probably figure you out and see for who you really are faster and be less interested.

So I would say your definitely a cougar that's hit stride, and is more attractive to younger, attractive men willing to chase you, thereby allowing you use your sexuality a means of achieving what you want. Your sexuality allows you to exercise a greater degree of control over younger men, while at same time increasing your own sense of self worth.

[Smc08]

Hmm interesting concept. Of course your right about women using there looks to go after a potential partner. But that’s kinda true for all women. Not just cougars. When I dress up to attract someone at a place like the club, I’m dressed mainly based on how every other girl there are dressed. except for me it’s the pool hall because I like to play billiards. I’m not thinking how do I specifically dress to attract a certain age group. Not only do I think that’s silly but it’s impossible to determine that.

I never said men in there 30s don’t hit on me. People of all ages do, even old men in there 60s. I just happens to be more with younger people. I also don’t think it’s “fast” to date 2 people in 4 years and just now consider something new. Sounds kind prudish to me. But I appreciate the input.

[DaveJord]

Just saying of your attracted to and dating younger men then by definition you're a cougar.

[tzdc21]

Age is really just a number. He's over 18, he's attractive to you, then that's good enough. Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be.

[wittymilf]

Cougars chase, they’re not being chased. :) like me I’m a milf not a cougar. I don’t chase you get men, I fight them off 🤺🤺

[Anonymous]

I think 21’s old enough to drink. And you’re not a cougar just cause younger guys hit on you. You have to like them back.

[Anonymous]

You are 32 not a cougar but a milf , wittymilf is a cougar tho but she keeps telling herself she's not.

[Tyrael]

Nah, a cougar does the chasing

[CoolCatMar1]

Nah it's not your fault they like u haha

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't think so.

[Adogdog]

No, you are too young to be a cougar.

[In_Trance]

no, you're not there yet

[Frank1010]

screw it just do him