Does deleting a guy’s number really help you to move on?

[Anonymous]

I have recently met a guy and we went on two dates. I think he wasn’t too keen to meet again and said it probably won’t turn into a relationship since we met online. He also said he was confused and might change his mind in 2 weeks? Anyhow I feel like I deserve someone who actually wants to see me even if it is just causal dating.
He had been respectful and checked on me to see how I was after I got home but the situation still makes me feel bad. Is it a better idea to delete his number from WhatsApp and move on? That way he will also get the hint I’m accepting his feelings.

[shyonehere]

Deleting a number does not delete phycological effects in your head. If it does for you, okay, do it. You need to learn to just be okay with trying someone out and being able to move on. It helps you work those muscles of yours that relate to your will and your acceptance in being with yourself. If you can't handle his number existing and you having access to it, are you really growing in your ability? For some, I guess they can't, but I wouldn't want to stay in that mode myself. I would hate to feel like I have to have people keep potato chips locked away and out of my reach when I visit, otherwise I'll eat the whole bag... instead, I REALLY just need to learn how I deal with it around and cope with it's presence. I recommend not deleting him and learning to generally be okay with it.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I live in Pennsylvania and a girl wanted to have a relationship over texting, but I never deleted her phone number and still keep it in my phone. But we haven't talked in months.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :P

[aaron210419]

Yes, once your decide is over that's it. Save yourself more heartache down the road

[Mafia24]

Yes ma'am you deserve better...
Yes ma'am go on delete his number it will help you

[In_Trance]

Yeah