Which man has more chances to sleep around?

[marish01]

I think men will choose B

Women will choose A

An average looking man who respects women

A hot man who views women as sex objects

Updates

1 y

Women who sleep around don't care if the men they sleep with respects them as long as he's hot.
Low self worth

[meetkitty123]

Your question seems subjective to interpretation when I hear "which man has more chances to sleep around" I don't hear who has the most chance of a woman sleeping with him I hear a man who is unfaithful and most likely to have affairs and one night stands.

In such a case where no strings are attached I would say the man who's more attractive has a higher chance of meaningless sex and more likely to cheat if he is not a respectable man.

An average looking man who respects women or any man who respects women regardless of their looks would... As the sentence implies respect women therefore if he's in a relationship that's going to steady a respectful full man would be faithful.

I believe a respectable man has less chance of sleeping around or cheating perhaps because of his personality and in some cases perhaps his average looks but there are respectful man who are handsome regardless of their looks these men will be more particular it might take them a little longer to get into a relationship but once they find someone to go steady with then they will be possibly be having more sex than the handsome single party Guy in respect that the respectable man would be having sex with one girl and continuously while The party Guy has to fish around for his next lay.

I prefer to wait and find a respectable man. Regardless of how people would judge the man or did they think he's a 10 or they think he's five it doesn't matter at the end of the day when I choose a partner I'm going to find him attractive yeah I don't care what other people think of him physically it comes on to how I see him and yes he has to be respectable I don't care to sleep around and I don't care for someone who is wild and goes trying to get quick lays to me doesn't matter what they look like in the perspective of others I don't care if they judge him to be a 20 out of 10 if he sleazy he's disgusting I don't want them.

As to those who honestly believe respectable men aren't capable of getting a girl or getting laid well they need to look deep down inside are they truly respectable what are they doing and portraying that may push a woman away. I've known kind men but there are certain traits that will push me away from them if they don't have a steady going job if they're living with Mama and Papa they don't have a car to me these are things of responsibility so if they're not portraying to me that they can be responsible and kind then I'm not interested.

Some men claim to be respectful but it turns out that they're not. If you have a short temper if you're yelling at the girl if the guy repeatedly does things that she's asked him not to do and breaks boundaries and that's not respectful so there might be nice guys out there but nice guys who don't treat women nicely to the fullest extent. This type of men might start off all right with a girl but then they get dumped I've had my share of them they come off looking respectful but then they do dumb crap that ends the relationship.

Regardless my looking for a partner process might take a while and therefore I might go a bit without any sexual contact but once I choose somebody I feel respected by I go steady. The man who goes steady with me, a respectable man, I can guarantee you he's going to get plenty of sex as long as he's patient in the choosing process and during the getting to know him process but once I pass that prescreening stage it's all green lights from there and it's wild romantic exotic erotic loving and a hell lot of fun.

[marish01]

Is it respectful to treat a woman as nothing but good for sex?

[meetkitty123]

Clearly that is not a respectable man now is it?

[marish01]

No but is a woman who sleeps around has self-respect

[meetkitty123]

I'm not sure. Sleeps around as in cheating or simply is single not looking for a relationship but company every so often?

I'd say no respect for one self would be
*Getting drunk on many occasions
*Getting high
*Not protecting oneself against STDs or pregnancy
*Not screening oneself for STDS on a regular basis if they have an active sex life and not a single partner.

Honestly for myself Before I ever have sex with an individual they need to test for STDs and show me the results and of course I do the same for the man I will be with. The only time I engage in sex is with an long term exclusive partner. If I dont jave some sort of level of love for the man I cannot sleep with him.

As an adult its ok to have sex so long as you are safe and make proper decisions.

[marish01]

You didn't answer my question.
A single woman has sex with a one night stand who views her as nothing but sex object. They use protection.
How does she have self respect?
Protection or not being drunk don't show she has self respect.
She agrees to have sex with a total stranger who views her as nothing but a hole for fucking.
I would NEVER do that. My self respect doesn't allow me.

[Alex8736]

to better clarify the battle of the sexes, as in sleeping around in the terms of friends with benefits it would only be that 1 i would be sleeping with but if either myself or the other party start seeing someone new then the friends with benefits will come to a halt out of respect for other

[kylee2437]

I choose B. Sleeping with someone in most case scenario has to do with looks and surface level expectations. That’s why abusive relationships are so common

[marish01]

It has to do with the looks of a man.
Ugly women can sleep around.

[kylee2437]

@marish01 oh yes they can lol women are more capable of sleeping around than any man honestly even if she’s fully. Men have to work and put in effort to hook up almost every time

[marish01]

Because men will sleep with any woman. Low standards

[kylee2437]

Men will sleep with women they can get.

[kylee2437]

Plus saying certain women are ugly is subjective because every man has different types

[YourFavoriteFriend]

@marish01 Actually, it's not low standards. It's that we don't care a lot when it comes to have sex. Unless, this is what you mean with "low standards"...

[NathanDavis]

even to this day... I do have and get "chances to sleep around"

but I've never ever done it, I just don't sleep around.. and based on your descriptions, I am close to option A than I am to B

[Summeroflove]

It depends on the woman. If a woman is a good woman who respects men and is a good person will choose A. A woman whose a slut will choose B.


Point blank

[inhua]

B by far and it's not even close.

there's never been a hot dude in the history of the world that has never once been rewarded with sex regardless of how good or bad he is on the inside. doesn't matter if he's a complete gentleman like Henry Cavill or he can be a felon like Jeremy Meeks.

[Smoothing]

🤣🤣🤣 oh. How I wish that were true. Women choose men that will cheat in them every single time.

Women say one thing and then do another. Time and time again.

Sorry, but ut us very true.

[Deserter]

Women are delusional, this chick is a 5, she won't settle for less than an 8 tho she said in one of her questions. She's 32 and less good looking without makeup lmao

[marish01]

@Deserter but I might be 8 for him

[Deserter]

Yeah maybe

[Deserter]

@marish01 most guys are going for women in their 20s, we view that as prime, so you really gotta get on it if you want a man

[marish01]

@Deserter because women look better in their 20s. I admit that

[Deserter]

Just some advice

[Deserter]

I can't comment on other thread, it keeps refreshing, but tell juxtapose I said he doesn't understand cause he's a modernist cuck

[marish01]

@Deserter he is. He doesn't know what self esteem is.
He said it doesn't mean a woman has no swlf worth if she lets men use her as a sex object.

[Deserter]

Only reason most dudes act like assholes is cause being nice doesn't work. Women are pathological liars and they're mentally unstable. But they don't like this reality so they pretend they like nice guys and gaslight anyone who exposes the true nature of the whore.

[Juxtapose]

If that's true then why are men so much more violent?

[Deserter]

Testosterone, and cause women are weak cowards

[Juxtapose]

I would say the least violent gender is the more mentally stable one since violence is the most unstable act.

[Juxtapose]

And I have met women who are not like what you say.

[Deserter]

Men dominate in science and philosophy, women believe tht the stars and planets decide their destiny

[Juxtapose]

That's a generalization you know is not true.

[Juxtapose]

You got to find better women to talk to man.

[Juxtapose]

I know a female biologist and another one works with artificial intelligence security.

[Deserter]

You are in such deep denial it's unreal

[Deserter]

When a brainlet uses an anecdote to disprove a generalization 🤡🤡🤡

[Juxtapose]

Amusing that you're insulting my intelligence when you're generalizing half the population in such a grotesque manner.

[Juxtapose]

What woman hurt you so bad that you feel like this?

[Deserter]

The generalization is true, cry more, simpy

[Juxtapose]

Says the incel 🙄

[Deserter]

Battle cry of the feminist simp, she won't fuck you bro. Also stop inviting me to answer your stupid questions

[Juxtapose]

Which one? I have multiple female friends, unlike you. What woman would want to be friends with a misogynist asshole?

[Juxtapose]

And also unlike you, I don't befriend women hoping to fuck them.

[Deserter]

Women are trash, the proof is they choose me over you

[Deserter]

That's because you're not smart, I however am a God

[Juxtapose]

[Deserter]

Wow...

[marish01]

@Juxtapose women are weaker that is why they are less violent

[Marushka]

Wow you just told the whole world with the conversation that you can't get pussy nor have ever seen a university from inside lmao...

[marish01]

@Marushka he didn't miss out a great thing lol

[NavyblueTacos]

Im sorry that your life has been so shitty, that you believe this is actually true lol

[suzzieQ]

Lol only you would think that a lack of violence is cowardly

[Deserter]

@suzzieQ Only reason you're less violent is cause you can't back it up. As a gender you're certainly more temperamental. Y'all just rarely will get physical cause you know what will happen if you do

[suzzieQ]

Except women don't shoot up schools and yoga studios when they get rejected even though it's just as easy for them to get guns.

[Deserter]

Nobody cares about the mental health of men and women can get sex and relationships easy, female incels are a myth. Also school shootings are super rare. Women flip out if they don't get enough Instagram likes lol

[suzzieQ]

But they aren't committing mass shootings are they

[Deserter]

I just told you why they aren't. Society doesn't let women get to that point, also women lack the confidence to do it

[suzzieQ]

There are many resources for mens mental health, they just have to seek it out.
June is men's mental health month.
Here are a bunch of those resources.
www.nimh.nih.gov/.../men-and-mental-health
https://www.nami.org/home
https://afsp.org/
https://headsupguys.org/
https://mantherapy.org/
https://us.movember.com/mens-health/mental-health
www.mhanational.org/infographic-mental-health-men
www.activeminds.org/about-us/mission-and-impact/
www.nimhd.nih.gov/.../toolkit.html

[suzzieQ]

Oh and here are a bunch of support groups for men's mental health
https://mensgroup.com/
www.inspire.com/groups/mental-health-america/
www.faceitfoundation.org/support-offerings/
https://gaylesta.org/find-a-group
www.cliniciansofcolor.org/.../

Also, some mental health professionals that specialize in specifically men's mental health
https://www.themenslist.com/
https://blackmenheal.org/
www.melaninandmentalhealth.com/.../
https://www.innopsych.com/findatherapist
https://www.therapyforqpoc.com/

[Deserter]

The point is it's just men, women dont care, nor do they have to go to these places, society cares

[suzzieQ]

I literally just have you like 15 places they could go where people do care that took me less than 2 minutes to find. And women do care since were the ones who are being raped, assaulted and harassed by men. Our fathers teach us to be wary of them, and how to protect ourselves from them. Women are given pepper spray and rape whistles when being sent to college and men are given condoms. Men are the first to stand up and say it’s not all men until then have a daughter…

[Deserter]

Thank you for proving my point, you women make it about yourselves, you only care because it effects you, you dont actually care

[suzzieQ]

Pretty sure everyone would care about being a victims of rape and murder… we care so much we advocate and protest, donate and voulinteer. We go out of our way to dress in a way not to provoke men, we care so much that we make excuses like “I have a boy friend” or telling him “ you’re a nice guy” like we would call a threading dog a good boy to try and deescalate dangerous situation so that we won’t be murdered or worse..

[suzzieQ]

You talk about caring so much, what have you don’t to help? What support do you provide to men going though mental health crisis? What have you done to help combat suicide rates? Apart from using lack of sex as an excuse?

[Deserter]

You specifically made it about women cause that's what narcissists with no empathy do. I have helped my male friends. You women can't so much as compliment men, even online, you're useless

[suzzieQ]

Why can’t you compliment men? Why can’t other men compliment men? Why do expect random women to do it?
And what about your empathy? Do you even care about the people who get hurt? Raped? Harassed?

[Deserter]

Men already show other men support, myself included, you're the gender making them feel worthless

[suzzieQ]

But you just stated “ Nobody cares about the mental health of men”. Are you retracting that statement?

[Deserter]

Friends obviously being the exception, but even female friends won't cause they lack empathy and make everything about themselves

[suzzieQ]

So are you retracting your statement?

[Deserter]

No, but you are proving my point. You care more about being right, focusing on yourself, and not taking any blame than about how men feel and what you can do to help

[marish01]

@suzzieQ women rarely get rejected unlike men.

[suzzieQ]

Thats not a justification for rape and murder...

[marish01]

@suzzieQ did I say it is?
I mentioned the motive.

[suzzieQ]

I didn't say that you did.

[Deserter]

Only thing stopping women is they're weak cowards, it's not their morals that are stopping them, it's fear, unlike most men who won't for moral reasons

[suzzieQ]

So why haven’t you? Are you pathetic and weak?

[Deserter]

I don't want to and it's against my morals

[suzzieQ]

Guess that makes sense why women don’t commit mass shootings.

[marish01]

@suzzieQ they are scared of going to jail.
I believe women are not more moral than men but more careful than men.

[Deserter]

Yes, it's why men get into more car accidents despite being more coordinated and better drivers

[suzzieQ]

Males do 62% of the driving, but only cause 58% of the accidents. So women do cause slightly more accidents per capita than men. Men just get into more lethal accidents

[Deserter]

Ah, so women are even less coordinated than I gave them credit for

[marish01]

@suzzieQ thanks for the info.

[marish01]

At least she didn't hide it just for her argument.
I appreciate that trait.

[suzzieQ]

Actually it has more to do with differences in special recognition not coordination.

[suzzieQ]

@marish01 I value factual information so that people have a realistic perspective

[marish01]

@suzzieQ I know and I appreciate it

[suzzieQ]

Really? Because it sure doesn't seem that way when someone provides information that contradicts what you believe... but it's possible that you have changed

[marish01]

@suzzieQ are you talking to me?

[suzzieQ]

Yes I am

[marish01]

@suzzieQ the info you provided doesn't contradict my beliefs.
And I haven't changed.

[suzzieQ]

I know, because if it did, you wouldn't have appreciated it lol

[marish01]

@suzzieQ then why did you say it contradicted my beliefs?

[suzzieQ]

I didn’t. I said that you don’tappreciate factual information when it contradicts your beliefs.

[marish01]

@suzzieQ how do you know?
What are my beliefs according to you?

[suzzieQ]

Because I have read plenty of your comments and you obviously do not appreciate facts that do not align with what you believe.

[marish01]

@suzzieQ just name 1 out of those plenty comments

[suzzieQ]

"Women who sleep around don't care if the men they sleep with respects them as long as he's hot." "Everything is wrong with them. Being a sex object good for nothing piece of meat doesn't mean living your best life." "A naked female body is not hot. It only looks good 1) if it is almost perfect And 2) if it has nice clothes/lingerie on" "Strong and feminist? Lol most feminists are weak, bitter and insecure bitches " When asked how you think things would be handled differently if more women were in charge you answered. "A world without science, literature and classic music?"

[marish01]

@suzzieQ and what are the facts that don't align with what I believe?

[suzzieQ]

Well you stated that women who sleep around dont care if the men they sleep with respect them. Factually that is not true.
You stated that feminists are weak, bitter insecure bitches... that is blatantly false.
And that if there were more women were in charge we wouldn't have science, literature or music... that is also blatantly false.

[marish01]

@suzzieQ saying it is false doesn't prove anything. Go ahead and prove why what I said is untrue.
Do you sleep around?

[Deserter]

@marish01 she's a minor

[marish01]

She could still sleep around. Don't you see how bitter she is because I dislike sluts.

[Deserter]

Lmao

[suzzieQ]

Like I said, you obviously do not appreciate facts that do not align with what you believe. It also looks like you take it as a personal offence.

[marish01]

@suzzieQ you didn't provide facts. You only said what I said was untrue.
Now you did the same thing. Where are those facts?
And I'm not offended. I only wanted you to back up your claims with facts.

[suzzieQ]

Literature
1. Jane Austen
2. Mary Shelley
3. Emily Brontë
4. Charlotte Brontë
5. Louisa May Alcott
6. Gertrude Stein
7. Virginia Woolf
8. Agatha Christie

Clasical music
1. Hildegard of Bingen
2. Francesca Caccini
3. Barbara Strozzi
4. Isabella Leonarda
5. Louise Farrenc
6. Fanny Mendelssohn
7. Clara Schumann
8. Teresa Carreño
9. Cécile Chaminade

Scientists
1. Marie Curie
2. Jane Goodall
3. Lise Meitner
4. Irene Joliot-Curie
5. Gertrude Elion
6. Rosalind Franklin
7. Maria Goeppert-Mayer
8. Barbara McClintock
9. Dorothy Hodgkin

[marish01]

@suzzieQ and?

[suzzieQ]

Giving you the facts, you asked for

[marish01]

@suzzieQ I said there are no female musicians and scientists?

[Deserter]

@suzzieQ Respect your elders!

[marish01]

Imagine the long list of male musicians and scientists. Lol

[suzzieQ]

When asked how you think things would be handled differently if more women were in charge you answered. "A world without science, literature and classic music?"

[marish01]

@suzzieQ what women provided science, literature and classic music
is not even 10% of what men provided.

[Deserter]

People will say it's cause women were never given the chance and due to scial constructs. But the reality is women's brains work differently. They are pretty autistic pursuits, and autism in women is like 4× less prevelant

[suzzieQ]

I have you just a tiny sample of the women how have contributed to science, literature and music

[Deserter]

It's still far less than the men

[marish01]

And not great as men

[Juxtapose]

@suzzieQ I wouldn't waste your time arguing with them, they are misogynist and don't get it.

[Deserter]

How is it misogynistic to refer to data?

[marish01]

@Juxtapose hpw can I hate women when half of my beloved people are women.
Whoever says women are not good at something hates women according to you.
Use your own brains.

[Deserter]

That's the narrative nowadays, to just deny biological differences

[marish01]

They are very sensitive. They don't allow you to say that women are not good at some things.

[suzzieQ]

@Juxtapose yeah it looks like you’re right. I don’t think I’ve even men a women who so much ingrained misogyny before. It’s really sad

[marish01]

@suzzieQ you said men are violent. It is fine. It's not hatred. But me saying there have been way more male scientists and musicians make me a woman hater.
If I am a woman hater then you are a radical man hater.

[Deserter]

Why is it only ok to point out differences between the sexes when it paints women in a positive light or men in a negative light? @suzzieQ

[suzzieQ]

Except that isn't what you said, you said When asked how you think things would be handled differently if more women were in charge you answered. "A world without science, literature and classic music?"...

[Juxtapose]

@suzzieQ lol exactly but these morons won't get it 🤷‍♂️

[suzzieQ]

It's not, the issue here is misinformation, and trying to present bigoted personal opinions as fact. That is the problem.

[marish01]

@Juxtapose why are you hurt?
I can have an opinion. I am so glad women are not in charge. Now cry little boy. Simp

[suzzieQ]

I dont think I have ever met a girl who has thought so much and so little of herself at the same time. That internal conflict must be torture.

[marish01]

@suzzieQ feminists are so predictable. They believe women hate themselves if they think men in general are smarter and more talented than women.

[suzzieQ]

Well, there is more incorrect information from you. I am not a feminist, and I dont think you hate yourself. I think you are a product of how you were raised and have such deep seeded misogyny that you can't even see it. I pity you honestly. I think you have just as much potential to be just as smart and as talented as a man, even if you aren't able to recognize it.

[marish01]

@suzzieQ you are a feminist. Only a feminist believes that it is misogyny to believe men are more talented and smart than women.

[marish01]

@suzzieQ I am smarter and more talented than most men and almost all women.

[suzzieQ]

No, I dont think that it is misogyny to believe that men are more talented and smarter than women, I just know that is false. Just like you are conceited. This Aristotle complex you have is rather fascinating.

[marish01]

@suzzieQ do you think women are more talented than men?

[suzzieQ]

No, one sex is not more talented than the other in general.

[Deserter]

@suzzieQ Then why do they segregate sports between men and women? Why are there more smart men than smart women? There's also more dumb men than dumb women tbf, women statistically are simply more average. Men are more disimilar to one another than women are.

[Juxtapose]

@marish01 yeah you can have an opinion, and I can call it moronic all I want.

I bet you would like to see me cry 🤣

[Deserter]

Difference is hers are rooted in fact, yours in what you want to be true @Juxtapose you whiny simp

[Juxtapose]

You called yourself a god and the people I showed your arguments to laughed at you. Sit down son.

[Deserter]

I stated facts you lttle betabux simp, I screw your girl when you're at work, you can't satisfy her

[Juxtapose]

You stated misogynistic nonsense and are now pumping your ego while knowing nothing about me 🤷‍♂️

[Deserter]

Bro, statistics prove it true. You're a science denier

[Juxtapose]

I have heard the same claim from racists many times.

Yeah men are stronger and we have a wider range of behavior on average but you are saying shit like classical music and whatnot would not exist without men.

[Deserter]

Can you prove it would? I have no opinion on that

[Juxtapose]

Women can make some pretty good music if given the chance 👍

[Juxtapose]

It was hard for them in the past to develop those talents because they were conditioned to be subservient.

[Deserter]

Uh huh, what about Africans who didn't achieve nearly asmuch as whites, even before slavery. Werethey held back as well?

[Juxtapose]

The whole thing with Africans can be explained by how shitty there geography is. White people started out with better resources.

[Juxtapose]

*their

[Deserter]

What about other races that succeeded in a hot climate? Cold isn't ideal either yet peoole would succeed

[Juxtapose]

I mentioned geography, not climate.

https://youtu.be/_AQZTW1ua3g

[Deserter]

My point stands for that too

[Juxtapose]

The video doesn't mention the lack of navigational rivers into the heartland or the lack of deep water ports. Also Africa lacks high protein grains.

[Deserter]

wasn't a problem for jews and muslims

[marish01]

@Juxtapose of course you would call me names after all you're a feminist. You can't handle hearing people say men are better at some things than women.
I am waiting for you to say you're not a feminist lol. I love how feminists are ashamed of admitting they are feminists

[Juxtapose]

If you would watch the video then you would understand man.

[Juxtapose]

@marish01 HAHAHA 🤣 Do you have any idea how badly I piss off feminists? You people are all the same! The right wingers call me a communist and the left wingers call me a fascist. Racists call me a race traitor and sjws call me a bigoted racist.

You online randoms can't even get what I believe straight! Hahahahaha 😂

[marish01]

@Juxtapose it's just feminists who accuse others of misogyny left and right when all they said was men are better at some things than women.
And I'm not a right winger.

[suzzieQ]

Except that isn't what you said... You implied that they are superior to women, except for some reason you think you are better than pretty much everyone else for some reason.

[marish01]

@suzzieQ quote me where I said "men are superior to women"

[Deserter]

@Juxtapose hate to burst your bubble but that doesn't mean you aren't some weirdo extremist feminist, just that some are even more extreme than you

[suzzieQ]

I said that you implied that they are superior to women, except for some reason you think you are better than pretty much everyone else for some reason.

[Juxtapose]

Of course an incel would think I'm a feminist xD

[Deserter]

Ofc a feminist would call people incel

[marish01]

@Juxtapose I call you a feminist too

[marish01]

Lol only feminists call men incels when they don't glorify women

[Juxtapose]

You guys are idiots who say that without men there would be no such thing as classical music and other such things. Of course misogynists are going to think I'm a feminist, they think that of anyone who's not bigoted towards women.

[marish01]

@Juxtapose wow it such hateful thing to say. Thinking that someone can't write classical misic means hating them

[Juxtapose]

"Jews can't make classical music, without the true white race there would be no classical music."

That's what you sound like.

[marish01]

@Juxtapose still doesn't mean hating them. I say you can't write music does that mean I hate you?

[marish01]

@Juxtapose without the TRUE white race? Lol
You exagerrated just to make your argument valid.
Without the true MALE GENDER.
Did I say such a thing?

[Juxtapose]

Jews are white but were not considered true white people just like Irish people were. If I did not specify that then you would have gotten on me for implying that Jews are not white.

Anything to my point I guess 🤷‍♂️

[Juxtapose]

*Anything to avoid my point

[marish01]

@Juxtapose you are wrong. I don't care who is considered white.

[Juxtapose]

Yeah but you sure care about evading my point. Replace whatever you're saying about women with "Jew" and that is how you sound.

[marish01]

@Juxtapose I replaced.
It's still not hatred to think some group of people can't write classical music.
Go ahead and bring up whatever group of people you want still no hatred will be detected

[Juxtapose]

Anybody can write classical music you bozo!

[suzzieQ]

@Juxtapose She just thinks that men are better than women and that for some reason she is special and better than everyone else. Lol she wears her virginity like it is some special badge of honor and thinks she better than pretty much everyone else for it for some delusional reason.
" im no sexist... I just think men are better than women." No wonder she's single lol

[Juxtapose]

@suzzieQ nailed it!

She worships virginity because admitting she has no game would be painful and then claims that women are worse than men but she's not sexist.

Like.. what?

[marish01]

@suzzieQ lol so you have read most of my opinions since you know about my virginity.
I knew my opinion on not sleeping around hurt you.
Of course it is an honor to reject men. It us an honor to know your worth. It's an honor for ky future man to know I'm not a used up thing but pure treasure.

[suzzieQ]

Having sex doesn't use anyone up. That is a sexist archaic mentality. Your hymen doesn't make you any more or less of a treasure than anyone else. I bet you dont even know what the purpose of a hymen is..

[suzzieQ]

@Juxtapose She just thinks she's better than everyone else for some reason. It's classic narcissism and a textbook case of the Aristotle complex.

[marish01]

@suzzieQ did I say anything about a hymen?

[Juxtapose]

@suzzieQ the view of virginity worship certainly is strange is it not?

[marish01]

@Juxtapose lol you asked that to a girl who defends female promiscuity. What answer do you expect? Lol

[marish01]

@Juxtapose I don't worship. I value my body. No one gets to touch this body unless he's the love of my life.

[Juxtapose]

You don't get devalued just because you have sex. That is illogical.

[marish01]

@Juxtapose it depends on who you choose to have sex with.
If I had low self worth I'd be absolutely fine with having sex with a total stranger.

[Juxtapose]

Make that make logical sense to

[Juxtapose]

*to me

[marish01]

@Juxtapose Is my reason why I don't want to sleep around not understandable to you?

[suzzieQ]

@Juxtapose She just thinks she's better than people who have sex lol Like her hymen makes her special or something lol

[marish01]

@suzzieQ who have sex? Or who have casual sex. There is a difference there
Again I never said anything about hymens.

[suzzieQ]

I never said you did. Do you struggle with reading? Lol

[marish01]

@suzzieQ if I never saud such things then why do you make up things? You claim I think this and that based on WHAT?
IF I NEVER SAID SUCH THINGS?
How do you make such assumptions?
You admitted I never said anything about valuing hymens or hymen in general yet you claim I value hymen.
Now learn what I value
I value my body which is why a stranger doesn't get to touch me. His body is inferior to me in sexusl sense that is why I view him as a worthless sexual partner. My self esteem decides that a man who doesn't cherish, respect, love and want to spend his whole life with me yet only wants me just for ejaculation is inferior and worthless as a sexual partner.
But sluts don't need respect and love from the partner as their self worth is too low. They don't mind being wanted only for sex as they believe they don't deserve love and respect.
But I unlike them believe I'm a worthy person who deserves all the care, love, affection and attention from the man she chooses to have sex with.

[Juxtapose]

@marish01 I don't understand your reasoning at all.

[marish01]

@Juxtapose does a woman not get devalued when she has sex with a man who views her good only for fucking?

[Juxtapose]

No, a penis entering her body does not devalue her in any way.

I want you to tell me, logically, how a woman having sex with men who don't care about her devalues her. What about her changes? What about her is damaged?

I have had casual sex with people who I will never see again, and it has not devalued me at all. I find it rather insulting to say that engaging in physical intimacy casually makes me less of a human being.

There is no logical way you can show me that casual sex makes me lesser unless I get infected with STDs.. then yeah I am a lesser dating prospect because we can use logic to point out how diseases are bad for you.

[marish01]

@Juxtapose it devalues her because she has had thr most intimate thing with a man who views her good only for fucking.
How is it not devaluing?
She let the penis of the man who uses her a sex object enter her body. And you tell me this has nothing to do with self-worth?
According to you what are the reasons why I don't let men enter me?

[Juxtapose]

How a man views a woman is irrelevant to her self-worth, that's not a logical reason why she is worth any less.

I don't know you so I can't say. My best guess is you obey a religious, medieval, antiquated morality which has no basis in logic.

[marish01]

@Juxtapose don't change my words
It is that SHE lets him inside her knowing he views her as a sex object.
If a man sees me as a sex object it doesn't devalue me but if I let him inside knowing I'm a sex object for him then I devalue myself as I allow him to get pleasure out of me when all I am for him is a sex object.
I explain to you my self-worth and dignity contradict to promiscuous lifestyle yet you claim my views are not mine.

[marish01]

@Juxtapose it us astonushing how you're mentally incapable to understand basic logic.

[Juxtapose]

Like I said, other people's opinions on an individual is irrelevant towards their self-worth. I can let somebody fuck me in the ass and think they are taking advantage of me all they want, that doesn't devalue me at all.

[marish01]

@Juxtapose lol I knew you most likely were a man who would let that. You let it happen because your self worth is low.
It is meaningless to explain what self worth is to someone who lacks it.

[Juxtapose]

You're not explaining to me how I logically have less worth because I let an object inside of my body.

[Juxtapose]

You are trying to dehumanize me and should be ashamed of yourself.

[marish01]

@Juxtapose you dehumanized yourself by letting them use you as a sex object

[Juxtapose]

It's no different than letting someone sniff me because I smell good to them as some kind of "sniffing object." You are projecting your antiquated, baseless values onto me.

You can't point to a logical, practical reason why I am any lesser for what I have done.

[marish01]

@Juxtapose sniffing you because of your perfume is different than fucking your asshole because you're an object

[Juxtapose]

That's a declarative statement. I don't share your views and what you said doesn't allow me to see through your perspective.

[Juxtapose]

Explain to me how it's different, explain it to me like I'm an alien who doesn't understand your culture.

[marish01]

@Juxtapose fucking you in the ass by a man who views you as a sex object is the same to you as sniffing your perfume?
You are the type of person that if I spit on you you will say thanks I needed water

[Juxtapose]

Spitting on somebody is assault and I did not give you permission. If you touch me without my permission, especially if you assault me, you're not going to like what happens to you.

[marish01]

@Juxtapose does it matter if I respect you or not?

[Juxtapose]

No, we're strangers. I won't care what you do until you put your hands on me or whatnot.

[marish01]

@Juxtapose so is it ok to disrespect you as long as your asshole is fucked?

[Juxtapose]

LMFAO HOW THE FUCK DID YOU COME TO THAT CONCLUSION?

It's your right to free speech, you can say whatever you want to me and be as disrespectful as you want. Your words are not going to hurt me unless you are inciting people to kill me.

[marish01]

Because you don't care about being respected even by someone who you have sex with. You said you would let him fuck your ass and not care if he respects you.
So is it ok to disrespect you as long as your asshole is fucked?

[suzzieQ]

Your hymen is a part of your body sweety... and you just said you value your body. Are you not familiar with what a hymen represents in our current culture?
And guess what? You can value yourself and still have sex.

[marish01]

@suzzieQ it's not about the hymen. I will always value my body which is why my rule stays the same before and after I have sex.

[suzzieQ]

Lol you're like a broken record. We get it. A person can still value their body and have sex. Self-respect and casual sex are not mutually exclusive. You aren't better than anyone else just because you chose to be abstinent

[marish01]

@suzzieQ you make me repeat what I said.
A person who has casual sex is immature. I am disgusted by such people.
How degenerate one must be to have the most intimate thing with a total stranger.
I wouldn't touch panties of a stranger let one touch their genitalia.
It is not just lack of self worth but poor hygiene

[suzzieQ]

That is your personal opinion based on whatever biases you have. That isn't a fact.
How degenerate one must be to make unfounded, bigoted comments about people you dont know and something you have never experienced.
Then don't... no one is forcing you to, but you aren't any more mature or better than anyone else just because you chose not to.

[marish01]

@suzzieQ my personal opinion is based on ky mindset and personality. No slut can change my opinion no matter how hard they try

[suzzieQ]

No shit, how did you develop the mindset and personality you have?

[marish01]

@suzzieQ what do you mean?

[suzzieQ]

how did you develop the mindset and personality you have?

[marish01]

@suzzieQ i didn't ask to repeat

[marish01]

@suzzieQ you suggest that it is not my own opinion that sluts have no self respect and that someone taught me?
Even if it's so what do you offer? To change who I am?

[suzzieQ]

No im asking you how you formed that opinion. What information is that opinion based on?

[marish01]

@suzzieQ based on my values on love and self-worth

[suzzieQ]

and what are your values based on? Are you going to answer or keep talking in circles because you dont really know?

[marish01]

@suzzieQ stupid question.
Do you even understand what you asked?

[suzzieQ]

Yes, apparently you do not though. If you dont know that is okay to admit.

[marish01]

@suzzieQ I already answered. My views on love and self worth.
You don't understand self worth that is why you can't understand my stance

[suzzieQ]

and what are those views based on? do you not know?
Lol I understand self worth better than you, because I know that self worth is not based on how much sex you have lamo

[marish01]

@suzzieQ again you changed the path.
It's not HOW MUCH you have sex with but WHO you have sex with.
A stranger can never be my sexual partner. Do you understand what stops me from considering him as my sexual partner?

[suzzieQ]

Honestly I couldn’t care less about who you do or do not have sex with. Who you have sex with is no one’s business, just like it’s none of your business who someone else has sex with.
Just because you chose not to have casual sex doesn’t make you any better or worse than anyone else. Your abstinence doesn’t mean that you are any more mature, smarter or morally superior than anyone else

[marish01]

@suzzieQ it's not about business.
I knew you would avoid answering
I wanted you to understand the answer to your question.
If you try to think you may understand.
Read my previous comment again

[suzzieQ]

Then why don’t you try answering the question you’ve been avoiding for the past day. If you can’t just say so and we can move on to the next topic. If you answered the question then I would understand, but you continually refuse to do so either be cause you can’t or because you don’t know yourself

[Juxtapose]

It's okay to disrespect me period. I don't care what peons think of me.

[suzzieQ]

@Juxtapose if you didn’t you wouldn’t still be here honey

[Juxtapose]

@suzzieQ what, I can't have some fun without being concerned about what others think?

You presume too much.

[marish01]

@Juxtapose you had some fun then you cared. You cared to spend time on talking to me. It is caring

[Juxtapose]

Implying I care about someone's opinion means I am going to feel distress when I disagree with them.

[marish01]

Doesn't change the fact that you cared to talk

[suzzieQ]

Actually I was talking to you honey. You care way to much about everyone else instead of focusing on you self which is probably why you can't find a man willing to but up with your nasty attitude

[marish01]

@suzzieQ we all cared to talk.
Your assumption is wrong.
I don't have nasty attitude. I only disrespect immoral people.
Why would any guy mind me disliking sluts unless he is a feminist cuck.

[suzzieQ]

and just how do you determine what is moral marish? Hmm or do you not know that either. Because as far as anyone can tell, everything you dont like is apparently immoral to you... so how do you determine what is moral>

[Anonymous]

Women don’t care about being respected, it’s just something they bitch about because they need to have drama. Their actions consistently prove that they prefer a douchebag they think they can “change” over a guy who is already the way they say they want a guy.

[Berethor]

It's well known that girls like bad boys, and also female hypergamy, so I vote B.

[Cuminginside]

I feel like I need a therapy session looking at this post oh wait that's funny I'm a therapist in training anyway. Lol

[MCheetah]

Clearly option B. You know who else (claims to) "respect women?" Simps and male feminists.

[soe11]

I personally look for comprehensive personality female, I never sleep with anyone just like that, very much careful about sleeping with someone.

[Grond21]

It all depends on what kind of women you are talking about. A woman with good self-respect will choose option A. An Instagram model will choose option b, as long as he can get her more clout

[Anonymous]

Any guy who knows how to talk to girls.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/EV4GlWqNApE

[ThinkFitness23]

Many woman go out and simply want to bed the hottest dude in the bar, not all but many.

[rabbitzzz]

Average looking man can be hot. If he has inner pride. Women like pride ful men and hate humble weaklings.

[MCheetah]

"Average" men are both physically unattractive and weak.
In addition to be common, replaceable, and valueless. (Don't shoot the messenger.)

[LiamJHayden]

The one who takes the most swings. If he's hot and so shy that he rarely goes out he won't score as much as an average guy who is socially good and always on the prowl.

[Mangospacho]

B. Because, by definition, if they’re sleeping with a lot of women, they do think of women as sex objects even if they act like they respect women.

[loveslongnails]

Based on your update and your own analysis, the woman who sleeps around doesn't care either way. Why would she be inclined to pick A?

[marish01]

She wouldn't. That's my point.

[loveslongnails]

Yeah, so why did you post "I think women will choose A" ? You think that's what women will pick as an answer on HERE, but in reality, it's not so?

[marish01]

Yes. Many women claim they choose A but so many hot assholes get to sleep with women.

[loveslongnails]

Then that makes no sense because a woman who chooses a man that she "thinks" respects women, isn't really sleeping around in her mind. LOL She's rationalizing that it's the beginning of a relationship. Your sleep around girl just wants a hottie 99% of the time.

[marish01]

That sleep around girl wants a hot man even if he views her as a worthless human being. And that is what she is if she still has sex with a man who disrespects her.
This is what meant in the update

[loveslongnails]

I understand what your update is. LOL Your A choice just doesn't make sense to me, that's all.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

I doesn't matter what anyone will "choose". Real life says B like it or not.

[es20490446e]

Bottom of the line: a nice guy at all cost.

Doing better: an asshole guy.

The best: a nice man with clear boundaries.

[AdithyaR]

I chose B because i feel like dude A would not voluntarily choose to sleep around. I feel like he's more likely to prefer sticking to one person.

[LimitedBenefits101]

A hot man who views women as sex objects, they dont care if he beats them, spits on the, calls them names, these women would still sleep such men.

[Chthou95]

Come on now you know who's sleeping around more out of the two