Am I wrong for feeling this way?

[Anonymous]

I’m going on a work trip and I’ll be in another country for 15 days. I wanted to spend time with my boyfriend cause we’re gonna be apart for quite a long time ever since we started dating (FYI: I’m 21 and he’s 19) and for the past few days he barely texted me or wanted to hang out with me. I’m extremely upset and hurt cause I’m going to miss him very much but I think it’s obvious he’s not gonna miss me. I tried texting him asking if he wanted to meet up today before my flight and he said he was gonna be busy playing videogames with his friends and that he couldn’t miss it. I’m not sure what to do, I’m extremely hurt. Am i wrong for feeling like this?

[loveslongnails]

If he cared for you at all, he'd WANT to spend time with you before you leave. The video games will be there all the time you're gone. If his attitude is "it's only 15 days and my bruh's are more important", then recognize that you're dating a child. Do yourself a favor and dump this adolescent so you can make room for a real man to be in your life.

[Asker]

Thats what I thought too…

[loveslongnails]

So what are you going to do?

[boggboss]

It seems to me like this is normal behaviour from him so out of curiosity why has this never be spoken about

[Asker]

I’ve talked to him about that multiple times lol

[boggboss]

And u have stayed so u have let him know his behaviour is acceptable for u

[LimitedBenefits101]

You sound desperate

Let the guy enjoy his time with his friend

[Asker]

LOL damn, I always do! I just wanted to hang out a little before leaving 🥲

[LimitedBenefits101]

he's 19 at that age boys are crazy over video games

[jimmy2]

He young actually you both are. Just go on the trip he will miss you come back and all is good

[Nahid1707]

Everything better now?

[MadKez]

No you are not wrong