Guys, What is your view of somebody that is hard to get?

[Anonymous]

[Fryday_Knight]

If justified, I like the 'hunt', if you will. But people who do it for the sake of being hard to get are a waste of my time.

[CloudMassacre]

Someone who is really closed off or doesn’t really engage you

[Chill_Thoughts]

Know how to play the game. The line between, "not worth it" and "this is a lot of fun" is super thin. So tease, make him work for it, but also have some common sense. Like if you go out, don't ghost him for a week, thank him the same or next day and if he tries to set something right up, tell him you're busy the next couple of days, but that you're he'll find something amazing that you'll find the time for when you can meet up again
Keep the nuance and you'll both have a great time, seducting is one of the most parts of a relationship

[GreenLanternI0I]

Waste of my time and patience. If she wants a B. F. lets make it official and then I'll humor her with her girly games for fun, but if she is allover the place right from the very beginning and doesn't know this and that and dragging everything for hours days, weeks and months, I will leave this type of situation faster than she can say cat in a hat.

[Price511]

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Playing hard to get for somebody that you want around is a backwards idea. If you can’t determine that they’re somebody who will stick around when it’s not as easy by just simply looking at their personality, work on improving your judgement of character.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

I just got away. I'm very straight to what I want so if she can't answer with a direct "yes", then I take everything else as a "no". There are exceptions to this rule but they are very rare and never I saw a case where I would have made an exception.

[bamesjond0069]

Hard to get like Virgin who won't give it up unless they prove they are the right man? All about that 💯

Hard to get like silly games, pretends they don't have sex easily but has engaged in casual sex plenty. Trash. Hard pass. Lowest of low quality. Red flag mental issues.

[inhua]

she's only playing hard to get for some men and being completely easy for other men.

rules are broken for the alpha and rules are made for the beta

[Telekinetic-Potato]

That they are unsure of their own value so they need to make other people work for their attention so that they can get some self worth without having to do any soul searching or work.

[Smoothing]

No body is hard to get. It is just a game.
Some guys like ut, some guys hate it.
Either way, my take is that very few women play hard to get.

[Fireguy17]

well, they would not be with me, that's for sure.
life is too short for stupid games, so don't waste my time.

[FinalFantasyBro]

I wouldn't even attempt that I have way more important things to worry about than a girl is playing mind games with me.

[FilmGuy93]

That I would prefer she go be hard to get somewhere far away from me.

[Guy13]

Too high maintenance

[Nahid1707]

Hard to get means somebody who is being difficult and not cooperating no?

[Synikal]

Some would say she has high standards other would say she's just difficult. I choose the latter.

[Cedman]

I avoid them either you want me or not. I not going to chase you.

[God_of_Thunder]

Not worth my time

[Ironic_Method]

Not worth the trouble.

[aaron210419]

Hard to get, hard to please, hard to keep.

[Wise4myage]

Annoying and frustrating.

[jayhams]

Immature games

[BLP11520]

You will stay lonely, many ladies out there.

[krin_m]

Not worth my time or energy!

[Kaneki05]

Annoying.

[AmeerX]

Just a waste of time

[dudeinohio]

Not worth pursuing.

[Anonymous]

NEXT!