Most Helpful Opinions
No , I got past that stage , I realize it’s better to take the chance then not take the chance, is how I look at it , I rather be denied then never knowing , I think it’s worse never knowing to be honest. We don’t walk around with signs flashing over our heads saying what we are into and what our relationship status is , or what personality type we are looking for , If i see a beautiful girl that catches my eye , I go for it cuz who’s to say I will ever run into that girl again , if she denies me , oh well at least I tried0
It means I don't want you I like somebody else or my heart belongs to somebody else. Stop being obsessed over guys that just don't see you as in romantic way maybe they like you as a sister.1
No, I just have a hard time not being awkward around them0
What Girls & Guys Said
Absolutely not. It's the perfect motivation...10
No in fact it's easier because I'm 100% certain I'm attracted to her.
The girls I hesitate to approach are often the ones I'm still questioning if I would have sex with. And of course this only comes down to visual aspects not behavioral ones.0
I feel demotivated doing the approaching in general. Even to gorgeous girls.
Girls usually get asked out unsolicited by all kinds of guys and rejection is the default response (if any). What makes me a special case? It's like being another one of them.0
Yeah sometimes I kinda have the feeling like I am out of her league, afraid she rejects me rudly, or make me feel bad about myself. However through the years that fear is somewhat gone and I have high self-confidence Andi have got very beautiful and sexy girl from feeling my self-confidence that attracted them to me.0
Absolutely... mainly because from my experience, she is either, not interested, already dating someone, isn't into men, has absolutely no interests other than partying or work & sleep then having a drink in free time... i have horrible luck when it comes to romance.0
Somewhat, I am a little shy, but once I get talking to the person, it usually goes away quick. It is just that initial minute or two of the conversation, as long as they aren't rude then it usually goes well.0
Kinda, but that's actually what helps me be successful in most cases.
Hot girls don't want some cocky mother fucker walking up on them like he does it all the time.
(The slutty ones do I guess)0
not in the initial conversation but i find it so hard to stay engaging over the weeks of texting that i just don't enjoy. this isn't how we used to date. we agreed on a place and time and we met up not constant converstions of a few words each0
Well, even if I find a woman gorgeous I will never approach her. Simple. By choice that is.0
Nope. Got over that nonsense years ago. Life's too short.0
Absolutely not. My ego has been inflated to immeasurable standards.0
Never because i know if they turn me down there is someone else that will say yes26
No. I used to back in my younger days back somewhere around 30 it didn't matter how someone looked.0
No, that has never been a problem for me.0
I just did it and got a prom date. Bam 💥 yea it’s extremely difficult10
No it's not difficult for me. Well not since I was 15 lol0
Yes because I feel like they look down at you if you are not on the some level as them.0
No, not at all, through I usually don't approach women just in very special cases0
Extremely hard... which is why I literally never do it0
Yes, I also know I'm the complete opposite of what women look for0
The only reason this would be difficult is because I'd want to approach them because they are hot, and for no other reason. So I would, at best, try to come up with a reason and fail to come up with a good one because there isn't one and so it would be pathetically transparent that i just want to nut in them like every other guy in a mile radius. People who are not hot seem easy to approach because we don't think of approaching them until after we have a reason. But it would be just as hard without one.