Do you have a hard time approaching someone you find hot?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

No , I got past that stage , I realize it’s better to take the chance then not take the chance, is how I look at it , I rather be denied then never knowing , I think it’s worse never knowing to be honest. We don’t walk around with signs flashing over our heads saying what we are into and what our relationship status is , or what personality type we are looking for , If i see a beautiful girl that catches my eye , I go for it cuz who’s to say I will ever run into that girl again , if she denies me , oh well at least I tried

normalice · Accepted Answer

The only reason this would be difficult is because I'd want to approach them because they are hot, and for no other reason. So I would, at best, try to come up with a reason and fail to come up with a good one because there isn't one and so it would be pathetically transparent that i just want to nut in them like every other guy in a mile radius. People who are not hot seem easy to approach because we don't think of approaching them until after we have a reason. But it would be just as hard without one.

Alwayreckles93 · Accepted Answer

It means I don't want you I like somebody else or my heart belongs to somebody else. Stop being obsessed over guys that just don't see you as in romantic way maybe they like you as a sister.

AsaKyo · Accepted Answer

No, I just have a hard time not being awkward around them

Avicenna · Answer

Absolutely not. It's the perfect motivation...

Sleeper07 · Answer

No in fact it's easier because I'm 100% certain I'm attracted to her.

The girls I hesitate to approach are often the ones I'm still questioning if I would have sex with. And of course this only comes down to visual aspects not behavioral ones.

Unit1 · Answer

I feel demotivated doing the approaching in general. Even to gorgeous girls.

Girls usually get asked out unsolicited by all kinds of guys and rejection is the default response (if any). What makes me a special case? It's like being another one of them.

kellytheman · Answer

Yeah sometimes I kinda have the feeling like I am out of her league, afraid she rejects me rudly, or make me feel bad about myself. However through the years that fear is somewhat gone and I have high self-confidence Andi have got very beautiful and sexy girl from feeling my self-confidence that attracted them to me.

dragoblack · Answer

Absolutely... mainly because from my experience, she is either, not interested, already dating someone, isn't into men, has absolutely no interests other than partying or work & sleep then having a drink in free time... i have horrible luck when it comes to romance.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Somewhat, I am a little shy, but once I get talking to the person, it usually goes away quick. It is just that initial minute or two of the conversation, as long as they aren't rude then it usually goes well.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Kinda, but that's actually what helps me be successful in most cases. Hot girls don't want some cocky mother fucker walking up on them like he does it all the time. (The slutty ones do I guess)

007kingifrit · Answer

not in the initial conversation but i find it so hard to stay engaging over the weeks of texting that i just don't enjoy. this isn't how we used to date. we agreed on a place and time and we met up not constant converstions of a few words each

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, that has never been a problem for me.

serious · Answer

Well, even if I find a woman gorgeous I will never approach her. Simple. By choice that is.

Belgie · Answer

Nope. Got over that nonsense years ago. Life's too short.

crossdressingrihno · Answer

Absolutely not. My ego has been inflated to immeasurable standards.

BrookeS · Answer

Never because i know if they turn me down there is someone else that will say yes

Friendlybro79 · Answer

No it's not difficult for me. Well not since I was 15 lol

Hanrej · Answer

No. I used to back in my younger days back somewhere around 30 it didn't matter how someone looked.

baseball_del_tuono · Answer

I just did it and got a prom date. Bam 💥 yea it’s extremely difficult

Con29 · Answer

Yes because I feel like they look down at you if you are not on the some level as them.

Dreamclouds · Answer

No, not at all, through I usually don't approach women just in very special cases

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Extremely hard... which is why I literally never do it

anon123th · Answer

Yes, I also know I'm the complete opposite of what women look for

Juicy74 · Answer

No best be blunt about it

humanearth · Answer

When I was your age yes, today no

welcomemen · Answer

A bit hard but not extremely

FeelingGroovy · Answer

No, because it's all in the approach.

SawerBrown · Answer

No notcat all.

doctorwhofan23 · Answer

Yes I worry about rejection.

Christoff92 · Answer

No. Am very decisive.

LiamJHayden · Answer

No. Hot girls are a dime a dozen.

Backwood1988 · Answer

Yes I am very shy

Titlover01 · Answer

Yes I have that problem

EstevanMadrid898 · Answer

A little bit depending on the situation

Msputiton · Answer

Nope

megabamse · Answer

Not at all

Fuentes · Answer

No I dont

lazermazer · Answer

Not really

Alex8736 · Answer

not at all

riverrat3 · Answer

sometimes

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