Do you ever get suscpious when a really really attractive person starts talking to you?

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I promise I'm not crazy lol, so this one guy on IG started texting me and y'all, he's like an 11/10, he has such nice hair and greenish-hazel eyes😅😅 His body is fire, and his personality is just wow and he can hold down a conversation (and his accent is fire). We've done video calls and his place looks so well-decorated. And he's a biker! I just found myself asking myself why he was talking to someone like me😂 and ofc had to ask him too why he was even talking to me and he called me once he saw my message and he was like " You are a beautiful & interesting lady, don't ever fucking forget this, he looks like the type to have a model girlfriend and I'm nowhere close to being a model. Today we had a conversation about him visiting me next year ( he's from Germany). I feel like maybe he's serious about being my friend or whatever but with his looks, no man😴 something else is going on... what do you guys think? Should I just go with the flow?

michael00007 · Accepted Answer

All that glitters is not gold girl. you'll should meet soon and figure things out for yourself. Till then jus be appreciative of the fact that he is talking to you and build a good relation so that your first date is fun and interesting and then from there you can decide for yourselfs.
People often seem to be of high standards but what differentiates them from the rest is staying connected to go and being humble.
Keep talking and stay connected and open up jus like he does maybe sometimes if you open up on some thing he might open up on the others. Stay happy girl. Dont ignore the flags.

HighValue · Accepted Answer

If you are a morally good girl then it is reasonable that he could like you for real. Good guys that also look good and are successful in life want a good partner, not the common immoral trash people that they can find everywhere.

ZenJen444 · Accepted Answer

You have low self esteem and shouldn't even bother. And that's not to be shady but when men sense you're insecure they prey on that weakness.

No, I don't get suspicious because I know I am very attractive. Now if I were dressed like a slop and just hopped out of bed with a messy bun, baggy sweatpants yet he tried to talk to me while I looked shabby then I'd be suspicious. Which normally on my day off I aim for comfort. Yoga pants and hair pulled back but when I dress up it's a whole different story.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

I'm not going to lie: if someone attractive talks to me, I instantly assume they're just being nice or friendly and they're not attracted to me. It keeps me from being hurt or disappointed later on-

Spoiler: unfortunately that's been the case EVERY single time. Yay for having realistic expectations!

I'm not saying that's the case for you, asker. It sounds like the guy you're talking to is genuinely interested in you! It is possible; it's just finding someone like that.

kylee2437 · Answer

Depends on what you are looking for out of any situation with a guy. If your outcome is wanting a relationship, be sure to mention that’s what you are looking for. Going with the flow leads to confusion

SecretsofKB · Answer

Yeah... my fiancée... they are way too attractive to be talking to me... But as for you, just see where it goes and be cautious. Scams are a thing and I don't want you to fall victim. Feel him out!

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Yea really. Once on instagram I got a DM from a girl who claimed to be Camila Cabello, her profile had many pics of her. Was very suspicious if its some weird trick but at the end she was kinda nice and is now a friend. I still dont believe she is Camila though haha.

But if I would get approached on the street or so I would immediately look out for some guy/girl filming, I'd guess its one of those dumb pranks or tiktok challenges

AddylynnNightingale · Answer

I have my guard up with everyone. I don't care if you're unattractive to me or attractive. You're a stranger and I don't trust you. I'll play it cool, but I won't give you my number or anything.

BlueScorpio · Answer

I'm suspicious of anyone I speak to online, you need to be careful and make sure this person is legit and not catfish, scammer, or potential murderer.

TroyDT2 · Answer

Depends upon where it is. If it is on my patio, yes, because she's probably a gold digger who thinks I'm rich. She will be disappointed, because I inherited the house from my grandparents and if not for Prop 13 would not even be able to afford the property tax.

scooogy · Answer

I rather got slighty suspicious why I once had the chance to give my number to a hostess, until she said "thanks, but I have a boyfriend" hinting to her right side, and a few feet away there was a hulk-like bartender fortunately not looking my way who made me go limp in a second and ask her to get my number back 😂

Summeroflove · Answer

Yeah. Go with the flow. I don’t really trust strangers though. But if you like him. Maybe tell him you like him

mermaidcancermoon · Answer

I dont get suspicious if i see them in person. But its relatively easy to trick people online long distance, thats all I'll say

Anonymous · Answer

Believe in it unless he suddenly has some emergency and he wants you to send money.

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

Sometimes, I feel like I'm being set up it gets the best of me

dragoblack · Answer

Honestly, yes, because 98% of the time the only people i attract are people who i don't find attractive and or i don't have any women interested in me romantically.

TrillXHippy · Answer

I’m really suspicious. I’m not a guy that a lot of girls like so when an attractive girl starts talking to me I think she’s just messing with me

fonduegirl · Answer

Definitely, especially if he or she doesn't seem to have a real purpose of conversation.

athelete_7 · Answer

Do what ur gut tells to do. If u feel he is genuine u should go.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Not really, at the bar they are trying to bahlg a drink but I could spinnthem into becoming a client

dustybiker · Answer

No. I just turn around to see who will respond to them from behind me.

art84 · Answer

Never had an attractive woman talk to me out of nowhere.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Yes I do, Because I think of how easily they could hurt my feelings. Usually when a Guys says things like that to a Girl he is Sincere, But He could still turn out to be an Asshole later on.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course. Attractive women don't talk to unattractive or avg. guys. If she's talking to you she either wants something or it's a set up.

Jltakk · Answer

I'd get suspicious if anyone started talking to me.

Nsync · Answer

Don't overthink it, just go with the flow but be cautious

Nikki1989 · Answer

That rarely happens to me, sadly.

MONKSKIN1 · Answer

Need to be seeing a picture of this fella to see what all the fuss is about before commenting 😀

Nominal · Answer

I will say this - i am aware of every person.

slatyb · Answer

So go on a date and find out.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Just go with the flow 😊

Anonymous · Answer

Women can't just enjoy a good thing, can they?

Monalisa77 · Answer

Yes it nakes me think theyre just playing me

PinkRose24 · Answer

He might be a catfish

a_curious_young_boy · Answer

Please talk to me so that I can relate.

melanieeeB · Answer

Nope not at all

IdentetarianimSucks · Answer

My brain just blue screens.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Long distance is doomed to fail.

Joker_ · Answer

no, attractive women want me bad

pink-jilly · Answer

no lol

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