actually funny story, I never wanted to nor did I think about it, like its not something I think about to do, but did ended up doing it, when I started college I was such a freshman and lost and confused and I was taking hard classes and one of the classes the professor was so scary and mean he wouldn't even post the lecture notes or anything so this one girl I started talking to told me a secret that one of the guys in the class has the class notes on a cd, and he would give it to you to borrow so I didn't care who the guy was, how hot he was, I was determined to get an A in the class and I went up to him and said hi and introduced myself and then got to the point about the cd (felt like a drug deal or something lol) and he was really nice and friendly super sweet and he was like yeah sure so I burned the cd on my laptop and gave it back to him, and we started talking and had fun conversations and actually became good friends! turns out he's a hottie, tall muscles, and every girl in the school has a crush on him. he has like a million female friends. he became one of my good guy buds we would walk to class together and stuff, and I always had a crush on him but nothing serious haha.
oh and by the way I'm a shy introverted type of a girl, and to this day I still can't believe I had such balls to go and talk to him. the saying is true if you put your mind where the money or reward is (in this case my A in the class) anything is possible.
Well usually when that's the case, I find an excuse to talk to them and usually start it off with making a joke at their expense which usually gets a conversation going which leads to friendship and sometimes more, so I guess you could say I approach him but typically I won't make a move unless he actually knows I exist because who wants to talk to someone that doesn't care to know your name? ha ha sorry that I ramble but yeah you get the point:)
No, I wouldn't approach him nor would I make small talk. I'd admire him from afar, and it would stay that way unless he made a move. Why? Despite him being shy, I'm sure if he conjured up the courage to approach a girl she'd respond positively. I'd rather not run the risk of rejection and making an ass of myself in even assuming he'd be remotely interested.
From my observation, the only men women approach are the top 10-15% of men that 80-85% of women compete for.
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i wouldn't just walk up and start acting like I know the guy, I would casually and randomly ask him a stupid question from time to time, like, "do you have an extra pen?" or, "wat page did the teacher say?"
then id let him get comfy with me and it would just be natural
I have no problem approaching and talking to people, so I see no reason why I wouldn't. I just wouldn't make it flirtatious right away because that's not my style. I like just talking first, feeling them out.
Oh no I wouldn't. I am too shy to approach. I would figure he's not interested or is taken. I would just think he's cute but that's as far as I would go.
Heck no are shy hot guys are rare plus I'm shy too not a good mix I need someone else to get the convo going..but id probably jus stare
yeah, probably.
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