I don't know if I making guys feel uncomfortable when I ask them versus if they were to ask me out. I think I'm missing clues as to what is going on.
Why do I keep getting rejected and/or friendzoned by guys? What am I doing wrong? Am I I making them feel uncomfortable for being a female and asking?
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There is more to asking a guy out than just asking a guy out. Most women just don't understand that it's a skill most men practiced and got better at. It's also considered masculine energy to do the approaching and to lead. I've been asked out by women before and they were clueless, it's not in their nature. It's not typically feminine.
I get that there's more than just asking a guy I been knew that. But am I just supposed to keep waiting for the right person to show up and ask me out? I keep getting told that "He who finds a wife finds a good thing" and that I need to stop trying to find a man to ask out and let him find me and I need show that I want to be found. Or that being single isn't that bad. But is really that bad or wrong for woman to ask a guy out especially if she more than likely wants to spend the rest of her life with that person?
I also don't want a man who is interested in to feel as if he has to be the only to ask me out whether it's to date or get married. I want to show him hey if we're both interested I'm each other that it shouldn't matter if I you out. I also end confused when people ask me things and it's in lingo or some crazy phrase that's used today so it makes harder to know whether I'm being asked out or not
Since approaching women has become an unknown risk, less men do so overall. No one is saying it's wrong or bad for women to approach, I'm just saying I think it will be less successful because it is inherently masculine to lead, to approach, and to do the asking. Some men may like it, not sure how many.
Okay thank you
I thought the "fz" was "ok" to be in?
Yes but no matter what guy I ask the answer is no I just see you as friend or no plus sometimes being single isn't bad. I'm trying to figure out what I'm doing by asking the guy myself to keep ending up in the friend zone and not with a parttner
But isn’t it ok to be In The fz, instead of nothing at all?
Yes. But what are you trying to get at? Because what I don't get is why am I getting turned down by every guy I ask out
who are you asking out
I am asking guys I know, grew up with or are acquaintances with