Why am I suddenly getting ignored and rejected left and right by guys?

[Anonymous]

I have absolutely no idea why this is happening but out of nowhere I'm being rejected and ignored by guys left and right like even ones who used to be interested in me. Like even just starting conversation I’m getting ignored (with guys who liked me before.) Showed direct direct interest in like 2 guys this week both have rejected me. What's up with that?

[SnowedIn]

My first thought is perhaps something about you or your approach has changed. Particularly when you say "even ones who used to be interested in me". So that's one possibility -- that you've changed those things besides looks that used to be attractive.

Then, I don't know what your data is. If it is two guys this week, then that is NOT suddenly getting rejected. I don't believe that you always got every guy every time. Maybe, but that's hard to believe. So two guys in one week doesn't make a trend. Not every girl is going to be attractive to every guy. Some guys are going to pass you by. So, statistically, this may be your week or even month.

But, based on the two times in your question that you wrote about guys before now ignoring you I'm willing to bet that something about you has changed. Maybe there's a rumor about you, maybe it's how you're starting conversations, your appearance, your opinions -- there are countless possibilities, but I'd start with some self-introspection to identify reasons as the first step. Not saying that to be mean but the common denominator in your story is you.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you are being too kind?
If you are pretty too they are taking advantage..
I want to say with men be icy ! Don’t give the “I need you impression “ it’s all games sadly.
Be picky and from now on don’t talk to guys not even boys but MEN
Go older than your age 5-7 years older! Trust me it gets better if you need maturity.

[PatriceONeal]

Mgtow

[Asker]

mgtow is an joke no actual sane person actually follows it unless they want to be lonely forever. Treating women like shit doesn’t get you respect.

[PatriceONeal]

That's a misrepresentation and doesn't help your case to men who are simply done engaging with modern women in general.

[PatriceONeal]

Or maybe you could turn on social media and let someone tell you sweet nothings like you're just too good for them.

[Asker]

I could say I’ve had bad experience with modern day men tell every guy I talk to that I’m better than whatever they’re giving me but that wouldn’t make any sense if I want a genuine connection.

Mgtow does nothing, just meet better people and connect more. That whole group generalizes women so aggressively they miss out on good people because they’re so caught up on not appealing to women and being the disinterested one in a relationship.

[PatriceONeal]

Again you don't know ow what mgtow means. They're just going away. It's not a judgement on them it's a judgment on women. Why are the majority of 18-29 yr women professionally diagnosed with mental health problems? Could it be hookup and hoe culture? You can't just keep blaming men. They get tired of hearing it. Crying about it only proves the point.

[Asker]

This the the exact problem, you and the men in these groups don’t listen to what individual women are saying. You generalize to aggressively you aren’t even open to any type of criticism then say that you’re not letting women blame you while now blaming all modern women for a list of random shit pertaining to both genders. Stop with the whole gender divide stuff honestly it’s so kindergarten, grow up and treat people as individuals.

[PatriceONeal]

Individual statements don't agree with the general rule. That's an extenuating circumstance.

[PatriceONeal]

I'm trying to find middle ground to end modern feminism. Certainly doing more than a person like you who supports the feminist angle that claims victimhood for all women.