Is it normal to not chase women but also not interact with them because you feel like you're not worthy to talk to them?

[poneglyphs]

All, of my friends tell me not to get a girlfriend or guys here tell me not to chase girls but if I don't I just never talk to them and it's been more than a year since I went on an actual date. I don't use dating apps, most of the time I see them but just turn my head the other direction.

[RealMarek]

Talking to women and approaching women is not the same as “chasing women.” What people here mean by “don’t chase women” is that you should move on it a woman declines a date with you or makes clear she isn’t interested. Hollywood made all kinds of movies where the guy does all kinds of things and goes to great lengths to win a hesitant woman over. Maybe this works in an extreme minority of cases. Most often it just looks like desperation. Typical toxic messaging from Hollywood. But approaching a woman and speaking with her in a genuine and relaxed manner looks like confidence.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, really then how should I approach them 🤔

[RealMarek]

Just walk up and say hello, may I buy you a drink, make small talk, or some combo of these. Just try to stay relaxed. Maybe just smiling and saying hi as you walk past a woman is good practice. It’s a start.

[Avicenna]

If you’re interested in a woman talk to her. Just do it for fun, and don’t put pressure on yourself

[poneglyphs]

Oh, but I usually don't know what to say to them.

[Avicenna]

Don’t script it, because you can’t. You usually can’t tell what they’ll respond to, and every womanist different. Just start a friendly convo.

[Anonymous]

It's not worth worrying about. Focus on your purpose. have you found it? Are you on it? financially free? Retiring early? have your own Kingdom? Women are a waste of time, money and energy compared to life purpose. What's not normal is all of us young and older men not being on our purpose, not knowing why we are here, not being financially free... but spending money, our time, our focus, energy and mental power chasing women. Notice how no women will ever advise you to stop dating or to stop chasing them to focus on what's more important...

I do not chase women but they approach me and show interest. But I am on my purpose and working toward being financially free, serving others, changing the world, and regenerating the entire body. Women, dating = no comparison. But women are interested in me because I love life.

[Anonymous]

Only normal if you're intimidated by Asian woman's beauty.

White women are easy to talk to, I just open my front door and whistle for them to come.

[es20490446e]

Just talk with women as you would do with any other person.

[NathanDavis]

make your own choices... and then own them

[inhua]

it's your life. do whatever you want.

[exitseven]

no it is not normal.

[poneglyphs]

Apparently not 🥺🥺🥺

[LazerBean]

No, it's not normal.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, so am I a shut in 😕

[Anonymous]

It absolutely is normal.