We were texting yesterday and settled on Friday so our date is 5 days away
We see each other every day in class and talk a good amount, usually started by her but lately by me also
Like should I talk about the date? Flirt with her more or less? Just act the same way around her as I've done up to the point of asking her out? Touch her more to build some anticipation for the date? Or just stay cool as usual until Friday arrives? We usually stare at each other form afar at work and at times wink at each other, not sure if that should continue now that I asked her out, I don't want to make it weird for her either
I think she knows how I feel about her since I've been going over to talk to her a lot more lately and asked her out this weekend, and she said yes. We also have a bit of history as we went out drinking once and she got very touchy with me and took me to her apartment, though nothing happened
We also often have a quick lunch together and I don't want to avoid doing that either
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What's your reasoning for doing that?
For changing how I act? I don't want to just wondering if I should somehow or just stay the same. Or if I should try to get closer to her on the other hand. I know it'll be a bit awkward for sure to see each other every day
@waldo87 Just smile and be engaging.
So just keep the status quo? Winking at her when I see her and everything
Yes, that is good.
I tried to keep the status quo but she didn't go to me as she usually does, and kept it very short when I went to her. Busy talking on her phone on lunch time so didn't join her. I dunno, it was a bad day but it's things I can't control and my overthinking gets the best of me. She said yes and was looking for the day that best worked for both yesterday, that I know, everything else is probably just in my head?
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