Are men wired to prefer younger women?

[Anonymous]

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I'm a woman who doesn't want kids and wanted to know would a man still want to be with me even if I'm aged? No sexist comments please. Thank you

[NamerOfStars]

Yes, and yes- the biological roots of what makes a woman "sexually attractive" are the markers of youth, health, and fertility. The men attracted to such women outbred the men who weren't, and a hundred thousand years later, here we are. This has nothing to do with wanting kids; it's a matter of instinct and feeling, not thought. Women aren't thinking "Ooh, he'd be excellent at hanging drapes" when they ogle some musclebound hunk, either.

However, that doesn't mean you have no chance at finding somebody, just that you may not be able to attract the huge range of guys that other women can. In a way, it can even be a consolation; the kind of guys who would leave you for a younger, prettier woman won't even be interested in the first place. Looks fade, and for women, that process does start earlier and go faster, but it's still gradual; it's not like you hit some arbitrary age and suddenly you're hideous. A more psychologically mature man will of course still want to be attracted to you, but will realize that being with someone is about far more than just looks.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Some are, some don't.

I've almost always dated women older or around my age, because - as weird prejudice of mine - I've always seen younger women as unsuitable for me. I only dated a woman a couple years my junior some years ago (I was 21-22, she was 19) and I couldn't get over the fact she was younger than me - so much that I ended it.

[Multi_personality]

I would say 50/50.

Its a preference just like a 20yr might like a 40 year old. With so many human in this earth - I wouldn't worry about it.

It appears most like young ladies but thats not all true- my surroundings friends like ladies of 30+

[Alwayreckles93]

You are beautiful of course you can get any guy you like. I bet you look twice as better then a stupid 21 year old woman.

[Anonymous]

Ok I’m not trying to be an asshole but why don’t you want kids? I mean I could see if you were in your teens or early 20’s because you still have a lo lot of options as far as meeting someone. But now that you’re much older that ratio has gone down a lot, especially since you don’t want kids. Did something happen earlier in your dating life that drove you to this decision.

[Asker]

I never desired children and I'm very happy with how my life is and I prefer it to stay that way but I'd love to have a partner to enjoy that with. But I don't want a fuckbuddy, i want to spend my life with a decent man with respect a good morals.

[bamesjond0069]

Yes. No matter how old I get I prefer young women. That being said I can have fun and date older women but since fertility is low to none and innocence is not there... the only older women I'd be into are ones that are very hot and very obedient and do not want to play with semen vials to have kids. Lol

[Asker]

Well I don't want kids just saying.

[bamesjond0069]

So if you're also hot and low drama I'd imagine a friends with benefits or something along those lines would be an attractive proposition. Not any more though tbh because older women don't stand up to time so whether it's 1 year or 10 years at some point I know it will be over.

[Asker]

Well I'm the sort of person who stays even if the other person gets sick.

[bamesjond0069]

I mean someone hits it on the roulette table... meaning I don't know when I'll be sick or die and I'll probably be in a relationship at that point and who will it be with though? 🙃

[boggboss]

I would say as a society we do value younger looks so it's nit surprising

[Asker]

Its not surprising but should I worry?

[boggboss]

About what

[boggboss]

Thats what people do when u disagree with them unfortunately

[ZXCwWRQWz]

It was about something to do with what sort of guys are fine with girls who don't want any kids. I tried to type in an answer and it said I couldn't post it. Then found my whole conversation deleted.

[Asker]

I didn't disagree he wasn't answering my question directly.

[boggboss]

So if u don't answer the question how u like ill have my response deleted 😅

[Asker]

Should I worry about my age?

[ZXCwWRQWz]

Why do you have to delete my shit like that? I put my time into it. I might have come around to answering more directly if I understood better. This is a two-way thing: I understood you better and you understand me better. Did I say something so mean?

[Asker]

@ZXCwWRQWz look I can't understand what your saying alright.

[Asker]

@boggboss I feel I am being harassed just cause I ask about age etc etc

[ZXCwWRQWz]

I never asked about your specific age. I was talking about guys' ages relative to the women they dated. Anyway, my bad boggboss for messing up your comments. I'm just tired of getting engaged in a convo to see it disappear.

[boggboss]

How tho u ask this a lot so maybe people get annoyed with u posting it constantly

[boggboss]

Meh its fair enough its always annoying taking time out to answer to see it deleted

[ZXCwWRQWz]

@Asker if you don't what I mean then you can ask me very directly. You don't delete our entire civil conversation. I realize I'm not always clear in my answers. But it's very frustrating when I'm trying to answer something you asked and, you know, I'm long-winded so I think about it a lot and pace around the room and write a bit, then think more, then write a bit more, and it is very upsetting to me when I find I can't post it because the whole convo is deleted.

So I would hope in the future that maybe you can entertain people like us if you don't understand what we say so long as we aren't saying anything uncivil without deletion. But my bad for making a big deal out of this. This is not the first time this has happened to me. So I'm a bit flustered. Anyway, I hope you guys have a great day!

[Anonymous]

Yes, we are wired to find women in their prime reproductive years most attractive. It's just nature.

That said, you should have no trouble finding a good man if you bring the right things to the table.

[Shy_Steve]

We are just wired to find Attractive Women Attractive it is just that most Attractive Women are usually younger, Because we go for looks not age.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'd be with a woman that didn't want kids, after all, that is her wish.

[Anonymous]

"Are men wired to prefer younger women?"

No. Men are wired to prefer women of a certain age bracket. That doesn't mean the woman is younger if the man is in the same age range or younger.

[JSmuve]

Yes, of course. There's a reason why younger women turn the most heads.

[Charliefretz329]

Yes, all males of every species prefers younger more fertile females. That’s nature and without it the species would die off

[BJP21]

Because all the ladies in my age group are taken or content on staying single. :(

[FilmGuy93]

In general, yes.

[FunkyMonkee]

Women capable of having kids.

[FunkyMonkee]

Aged? You're in your 60's?

[Alwayreckles93]

She is not 😡

[FunkyMonkee]

@Alwayreckles93 Well, that's pretty much what aged is. Mid 30's to late 40's is NOT aged!!

[Anonymous]

Only if they are underage.

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, meant to say if they aren't underage. 🤣

[In_Trance]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

Yes, we are.