Why do men go for Younger women?

[Justcurious78]

I’m 40 years old. I’ve had my kids and don’t want more but I enjoy being in a relationship. I am finding however that men leave their relationships and go for much younger women why? I love sex and I’m comfortable in my own skin. So I have some wrinkles and my tummy isn’t as tight , does that really matter?

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+1 y

So you all are telling me that once a woman has kids and is 35-40 and up she’s no good anymore because she’s not attractive anymore? Wow what ever happened to seeing the beauty on what kind of a person she is and how much she loves... didn’t realaize men were so shallow these days

[Anonymous]

Generally speaking, men seem to find women in their early 20s the most physically attractive.

Generally men also find women close to their age the most compatible.

So …. what happens? Men usually date women somewhere between their own age, and early 20s. Some go very close to early 20s, but most are closer to their own age. But the average gap increases. So yes, most single men who are say 40, they are open to dating a 40 year old woman, but would mainly look to mid 30s or even a little younger.

By contrast, men who are say 47-51 think a 40 year old woman … IS an attractive young woman, but not too young.

[dudeinohio]

Well, I'd certainly be interested in a 40 year old :) So, really, you don't have much to worry about. You'll find someone in an appropriate age group. Guys go after women younger than *them*... not necessarily real young women, like in their 20s... the 20s are WAY too young for me.

[Tinkrr]

Mine didn't... my guy is 20... gonna turn 21 later this month... and I just turned 25 on the 6th... maybe it's because I have what everyone I know calls a baby face... like seriously most people who don't know me think I'm 16... he didn't... he already knew my age

[Tinkrr]

Thanks for the MHO

[AdmiralBailey]

awwww. go on you crazy kids

[Tinkrr]

@AdmiralBailey 😊

[AdmiralBailey]

@Tinkrr <3

[MzAsh]

Get in shape. Master good hair and makeup. Im almost 35 and 24 year olds think I’m their age.

[Justcurious78]

I feel I look pretty dam good for 40 people always tell me I look like I’m 30 but I’m never going to be that 19-23 year old any more you know.

[MzAsh]

Yeah I get it. Don’t worry so much about it. Everyone ages. Just take good care of yourself.

[FakeName123]

Because a womans physical attractiveness is correlated to her fertility (health + youth). There are statistics showing that men of ALL ages find women at 21-24 the most attractive.

Essentially you are past your prime and failed to secure a quality men during your prime. Tough luck.

[Anonymous]

You act like women never once ignored us for older men earlier in life. I had to try so hard for women in their 20s when I was in my 20s, once I hit 30 I barely have to try anymore with women in their 20s, they throw themselves at me.

What goes around comes around.

[Justcurious78]

Hmm I was never like that myself. I liked men that were around my age and 1-2 years older. I like knowing that your with someone that has a lot of the same interests and goals as you. I don’t think that’s fair to say what goes around comes around because thought there are many immature girls out there there are also a lot of mature women who love with all their heart

[Opinion Owner]

"didn’t realaize men were so shallow these days"

Says the gender that has been shallow since middle school...

[thegirlfromthething]

They probably want someone more fertile, less likely to already have kids, more energetic, with less baggage, and more conventionally attractive.

[thegirlfromthething]

Update: A lot of guys don’t want to help raise another man’s kids, especially if it means dealing with your ex. And older women can definitely still be pretty but probably not as pretty as younger women.

[Justcurious78]

Are you kidding me , men have kids too you know and we women when we get into blended families have to take care of his kids too. Come on that’s a pathetic excuse

[thegirlfromthething]

So you’re only approaching single fathers? A lot of them probably don’t want even more kids. It’s hard enough raising his own, and if he married a single mom he has to help take care of her children too. And it’s already difficult for his kids to have a new stepmom, but new step-siblings would make it even more complicated.

[boggboss]

Because simply put younger humans tend to look better this is not me saying you don't look hit but a general observation

[Justcurious78]

I feel I look pretty dam good for 40 people always tell me I look like I’m 30 but I’m never going to be that 19-23 year old any more you know

[boggboss]

That's why you look for guys that are not like that

[Justcurious78]

Not many around these days

[boggboss]

It's because young girls like older guys so they match up have you tried going for a finger guy

[Yesplease23]

Most girls date guy's around their age or slightly older

[boggboss]

Even if you say most there is a very high number of women my age love older men "they are more mature"

[slatyb]

I was divorced at your age. I did not try to date 20-somethings because I didn't want to start a family. Some of the 40-year-olds were great. Some reminded me of my mother.

[GD360]

I'm learning to like older women it's just I'm not set yet. It's not about sex for me. it's just that a relationship with older women are more serious and I don't want to feel less and inadequate in any way.

[blkgold33]

so go for it to make them feel younger. really i seen some good looking 35 and even 40 years old woman that i would love to hookup with

[TheFlak38]

40 years old and with kids. Wonderful. You've hit the wall lass. Forget it.

[Justcurious78]

What does your comment mean? Sorry am I missing something?

[Goodgirl120]

Young girls don’t go for oldies anyway. I don’t want an old man.

[Yesplease23]

Same lol some of these guys think we prefer them.

[outside_Toronto]

Physical appearance for the most part has little to nothing to do with it

[PrinceOfAljazeera]

once women reaches 30 its a no no, the downfalls starts.

[StickStickity13]

Younger women are more attractive and have less baggage.

[StickStickity13]

Younger women don't see the value in young men, or average guys. Don't get on a soap box

[Yesplease23]

Me and most of my friends prefer guys of our age anyone don't want to date a 40 year old dude.

[StickStickity13]

@Yesplease23 And women prefer men who are attractive and successful, does that make you shallow?

[Yesplease23]

Well men prefer same things but i won't mind him Looking average or even below average if we have chemistry as for successful he gotta ne educated but money don't matter.

[StickStickity13]

@Yesplease23 female behavior says otherwise

[Yesplease23]

At least not mine

[StickStickity13]

@Yesplease23 Maybe not you, but the majority, yes.

[Yesplease23]

Minority in my experience

[JamesBoradil03]

younger women are more attractive

[JamesBoradil03]

its ebjectively true for both genders. at a certain age people lose their attractiveness. same with guys and girls. and liking attractiveness isn't shallow, it just means that thats part of your type. not all guys are like this, but some are (i am).

[AdmiralBailey]

I'm free tonight
~Mr Bails Extraordinaire

[Justcurious78]

Thank you :)

[AdmiralBailey]

kisses

[KralArthur]

No honey. I am a mature lover haha

[Anonymous]

I personally only date guys of my age

[Reddwolf]

Not really

[Nachowedgie]

Nature