I've had quite a few girlfriends, but that was because I really tried and put effort into my dating life, and I asked girls out, despite being rejected several times, even by girls who liked me and told me I was attractive and told me they liked my confidence and boldness. However, I still find it difficult since I am busy with my studies and my job, so I don't have enough time to chase women all day long. Some guys are able to get with women very easily, but for me it takes a couple of months, even a year to get a new girlfriend.
Why is it so hard for most men in their 20s to get a girlfriend?
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Immature in life. No documented accomplishments like a House etc... Living with Mommie or roommates...
I like alone in a students accommodation because I am a student :) what house could I have in my early 20s?
your age says 25-30... And, you answered your own question BECAUSE that's exactly what a Woman thinks. Ther's reason the 22-25 are with the 35-40 year old men.
I disagree. In that case no student on this planet would have a girlfriend. That's a generalisation.
Students have no chance... dude you need to grow up and not talk or disagree about something that you obviously have no clue about. Your attitude will keep you Single !!
Most times men at this age want real life so they look for the right woman since there is no more playng with girls.
Also you are busy making your life, busy working and stuff so it's normal
By the time you find the right woman, things will fall the way they should and you will appreciate your patience
That's why I want to have a girlfriend, to see if she could be the right woman. You can't really know that unless you get that closer to someone.
Yh buh still start with a friendship
Most women value experience, confidence, status and the ability to lead and provide more than your age. This is why if you look after yourself as you get older, you will likely find younger women interested in you. In your 20's forget about women, get on your purpose.
I definitely agree with that, but most women I know are in relationships with men their age or 2-5 years older than them. I study and I work, that's my purpose, but I still have emotional and physical needs. At the end of the day, I still need someone.
Sometimes what you study, and where you work is your purpose, but many times it isn't that at all. Purpose is what you were specifically born to do that only you can do in that particular way. There is a trade off. Either you sacrifice emotional and physical needs now for later, or you have them now and will sacrifice later.
It's the reverse for women. When they are in their 20's. So often they do not sacrifice their options and sexual power but when older, it sacrifices them. Make the choice...
I was born to do many things, there is not once specific thing I was born to do. I assume you mean calling/vocation/talent. Purpose means being determined to achieve a goal.
I was referring to life purpose. But yes, 'calling' would have been a better term.