How often should you meet one another when you first start dating?

[red324]

This girl is only free on the weekends so we don't see each other very often, so it's been about a month now and we've been on two dates. I just don't feel like these girls are really ever that into me. We text after work and such but still.

[Guy13]

Twice a week but not marathon meetings. Get away walk lake Wednesday, kiss, no sex... simple bonding. Weekend bonded crap already done and straight-up fun as she already has a sense of my Person...

[red324]

Guess I'll start looking for someone else

[Guy13]

Alright, best in that Search. Dating etc can be draining as hell...

[HighValue]

One day per week is enough for me until we are ready to live together. I work during the week and I want one of my days off to myself.

[Jamie05rhs]

That's decent, though. Don't worry; it will pick up over time.

[red324]

Every weekend is kind of excessive sometimes. I don't mind once a week just as long as it's a different day. A weekday date would be nice.

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay. So tell her that.

[Jamie05rhs]

Then again, it may not be feasible, if she has a strict schedule.

[red324]

I asked about a third date and now she just wants to hang out as friends. Too much going on in her life. Whatever. I met her kids and took them all out on a date last weekend.

[Jamie05rhs]

@red324 F her, then. Cut her off completely.

[red324]

These women are so disrespectful these days. I see why so many guys cheat and have side chick's now. You have too, nobody sticks around for the long term anymore.

[Jamie05rhs]

@red324 No, no. Don't go down that dark road, my man. Keep the faith.

[spartan55]

Twice in a month? Move on dude.

[red324]

Well the same thing happens with every girl.

[red324]

she's got two kids they're always sick.

[spartan55]

She ain't interested.

[red324]

why does she waste her time messaging me every night after work?

[spartan55]

Something to keep her occupied. She is what I like to call a window shopper.