How soon after a first date do you reach out for another?

[Marshymallow]

So three weeks after our first date this guy reached out for another 2 days ago which I rejected.

Truth is neither of us texted or called after the first date. I ran into him this morning and he said he didn’t reach out because he could tell I wasn’t that into him (which was true), but he still likes me and wants to try again.

ASAP

A few days to 1 week

A couple of weeks

Whenever I feel like

I let the other person reach out first

Others

[dynamicyandere]

I’d say to wait at least a day but no longer than a week.

[dynamicyandere]

This is for scheduling another date by the way, in terms of when the next date will occur, I’d say it depends on how busy they are. Going on a date once a week or every two weeks sounds like a good pace if the chemistry is going well and you want to keep the momentum going.

[Marshymallow]

Right! If he really thought there was chemistry there then why wait that long? I’m not even sure what to do about him right now coz I feel kinda bad.

[dynamicyandere]

No texting or calling for 3 whole weeks? Unless there’s a very good explanation as to why—like some sort of big event or emergency, I’d say it’s safe to just let go so nobody’s time gets wasted. Besides, if you spend one whole date together—unless it was super short and you barely got to know each other, you should know by the end of the date if you want to see them again.

[dynamicyandere]

Thanks for the MHO. :)

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Usually within three to five business days.

[Marshymallow]

Lmfao you mean business 😂

[Static_In_The_Attic]

When it comes to dating be yourself & if you like the other person feel free to let them know & don’t be afraid to reach out as well. On the flip side sometimes first dates don’t go so well & sometimes we all get a little nervous & as for me I always give someone a second chance.

[loveslongnails]

By the end of the first date, a man should be able to read the girl and know if she wants a second one. If the guy can't tell one way or the other, he's either got really bad radar or the answer is no!! If I wanted a second date and I could tell she wanted one too, I'd ask her right away when I say good night, or when I was leaving. If I thought it would be "sexier" to keep her guessing even though I knew she'd say yes, I'd wait two days, maybe three.

[JakeS00]

I’d give some time but not too long. Maybe two weeks? As I’d assume you would be talking with them enough.

[Marshymallow]

Sounds reasonable

[Anonymous]

I’d say as early as the next day if you two were really into one another. Nothing wrong w that, why wait. Now in your situation I would t lead him on you said you weren’t into him.

[Danny_dan92]

Pretty much immediately. Cause that usually is a sign that it went well, thus you’d wanna keep talking/seeing each other

[Anonymous]

I usually text them right after to tell them I had a great time and that I’m looking forward to see them again, but I won’t immediately flat out ask them out for another date until a few days after.

[Avicenna]

I tell her at the end of the first date I’d like to have a second one

[BarryLiverstone]

I give it a few days. Want time to process and live my life. But 3 weeks is cray

[EnglishEuropean]

tbh I've never got as far as a second date. Dating sucks.

[Wise4myage]

B has worked for me before.

[Marshymallow]

Like how many days would you say?

[Wise4myage]

Probaby 3--4 days.

[Dohbeieirjen]

I dont chase men

[Anonymous]

I do not date