Is it strange or unheard of for a guy to in his mid twenties and still doesn't know how to date or get laid? Are thoses red flags?

[poneglyphs]

I still do not know how to talk to women, or even ask them out. I don't try because I feel incompetent as a guy who really doesn't have nothing to give in return and never did dated when I was younger because of self-esteem and depression. Now I just accept the fact that I'm lonely and get sad at other couples.

[Anonymous]

Your priorities are all wrong. What is your life purpose? what were you put on this planet to do? are you financially free? Can you retire early? Have your own home / Kingdom? Do you want to change the world forever?

If young men spent the same energy chasing their life purpose as they did chasing women, not only would they live an infinitely superior life, they wouldn't need to worry about any of what you just mentioned because women would be chasing them anyway.

Ever asked yourself why so many teen flicks, movies, media, family, peers, other women and practically every single person encourage young men to chase females.. but never their life purpose?

In answer to your question, most women value experience, confidence, and superior looks over age. At your age you don't know yourself. Some of the extremely good looking guys at that age can get a lot of dates and get laid but in the end, what did they gain?

Get on your purpose!

[NathanDavis]

any guy that says "get laid" is a massive red flag for most women

[poneglyphs]

Oh, cool, well it's not like I get laid regardless so...

[Anonymous]

Yeah, there must be something wrong with him.

[poneglyphs]

Yippee 😕😕😕

[exitseven]

I think the older you get, the harder it will be to grow.

[Avicenna]

It’s less unusual these days.

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, I bet

[moviedude714]

I would say more common than people think