I’ve noticed I get a lot of guys attention and I’m often asked for just casual relationships but nobody ever really wants anything more from me. Nobody even really tries to get to know me really so I don't know what I can do to appear more relationship worthy than just casual sex worthy.
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Dont change your appearance and dress how you like to dress BUT if your dressing to please men and not yourself stop doing that, at least until youve sussed the guy out more (few dates, then rock his world). For example good guys won't diminish you and will respect you while wearing a mini skirt but it will also attract guys looking just for hook ups.
I agree, no friends with benefits - nobody is going to view you as girlfriend potential with that going on, including the friend getting the benefits.
No one night stands or hook ups unless his just a meaningless guy to scratch your itch (oh and he understands that, fairs fair after all). a lot of guys won't be thinking relationship after that, and those that would won't leave if they had to wait a little.
Expand your flirting repertoire, its ok to have a little sexual flirting but mix in more playful and banter. If his only cycling back round to sexual flirting and doesn't care about the other then its a one trick mind.
Be clear about the difference between guy mates and potential love interests. You dont want to encourage a jealous guy who will be controlling or stop you having guy mates, but guys are going to wonder if you have lots of guy mates, especially if your interactions with guy mates is similar to with them. Guys won't look to invest if they think opening up is going to get them hurt.
Make sure to talk about yourself as much as the guy and share your interests. Be sure his listening to you and about you and trying to understand your interests. Most guys after a hook up can't be bothered to do that. Though keep an interest in him to he needs to know your interested to stay.
Approach guys through more than one avenue or environment. Tinder and night clubs are filtering towards more of one type of interaction. Shops, pubs, hobbies daytime activities are well less sexy and can be more personable, it can also be more of a shared experience.
Hope that helped
It's mostly the type of guy, but there are some things you can do like:
Dress pretty, but modestly. No cleavage, short skirts, booty shorts, leggings that show your whole ass etc.
Don't have friends with benefits especially while you're looking for something serious. Most guys aren't gonna want a serious relationship with a woman who has fuck buddies.
Don't be a party girl. Party girls who stay out drinking all night are a nightmare. You can't have a real relationship with that.
Careful the way that you flirt with guys you just met, don't be too sexual right away or the sleezy guys are gonna be all over you. Act like a lady, you'll get treated like one.
Don't keep a lot of close male friends because other guys see them as a threat for you to cheat.
Having traditional values mostly.