Girl I started seeing texts through the day, I don’t mind but I’d rather see her. Waiting for her to make a move cuz I’ve made mine previously?

[Anonymous]

Girl I’m seeing texts a lot, and I’m going with the flow reciprocating. Ideally I’d like to see her again soon, but I want her to ask for a hangout as I’ve planned the last two. It’s been about 5 days since I’ve last seen her and there been a lot of daily text conversations. I’ve even got some of her pretty expensive personal belongings she left behind that I was expecting her to want back sooner but I guess not. I enjoy talking to her but I’d like to see her in person more. What I want to happen is for her to sent a message saying when are you free but it doesn’t seem like it’ll happen soon. Or I’m worried she’ll just ask for her belongings without wanting to actually see me.

[Guy13]

Not the way it works. Lead and stop acting like it’s chess ♟. Ask/Tell her where you two are meeting over snack or activity or something

[Asker]

You really don’t think she should be putting in some effort to actually see me instead of just messaging pointlessly all day. Most of the work in the initial stages should be done by the woman in my opinion

[Guy13]

Pointless exactly ‼️ That’s where’s she’s at. No direction or leadership. A bunch of games and wasted cognition but no Evidence that she has Value.

[boggboss]

So what are u asking

[Asker]

Asking if I should ignore, keep messaging, or ask her for another date. Even though I planned the last ones

[boggboss]

Thats upto you many women won't plan a date even if they like the guy

[Asker]

She even left her very expensive belongings with me, by mistake of course but I thought that would be an incentive for her to want to plan a meet up

[boggboss]

Lol why would it

[Asker]

To get them back

[boggboss]

Yet in her mind she could just pick them up again when u planned another date again women rarely plan dates especially if your not together

[Asker]

I see what u mean. So you think I need to plan the next date again. Or should I leave it for a few more days to get to take a hint with some initiative?

[boggboss]

What do u mean get her to take the hint women don't plan dates she is probobly thinking u don't like her or u have a issue