On the first date, I went over to this guys house just to cuddle without sex, and he looked through my notifications on my phone because I had pass?

[Anonymous]

Why would a guy do that? It was the first time meeting him and he was nice and seemed a bit giddy

[Guy13]

On a very first date... like a first meet... you went to a guy's place for pre-dating testing which included Cuddling. Is this correct? I would have never allowed you into my place or even provided you an address where I lived until I knew you much better. This sounds dangerous in its conception.

And come to find out you/she is in a dangerous situation with a guy who takes it upon himself to search through your phone. Who knows what he may or may not do with access to all your personal data, histories, and contacts etc. All I can wonder is if you... "Have you lost your mind and any common sense you have ever had?"

[FilmGuy93]

He did it because he has some pretty serious issues with boundaries... as evidenced by the fact he invited you over for a cuddle session for the first time he met you...

[kylee2437]

Yeah stay away from him. Seems like he was trying to see if you are talking to other people meanwhile he didn’t even provide you a first date worth further investing your time into him. I sure hope you aren’t settling for a man that provided 0 substance into this date

[Asker]

Lol on the first date we couldn’t figure out what to do so we just went to his place. Got food and went to his

[kylee2437]

@asker doesn’t sound like a quality man. A quality man is going to plan something because he thinks you’re valuable enough. He may have not slept with you but he felt the need to scope out who you may be talking to because he knows he’s not a good option. Don’t settle