Did he just want to see my phone on the date?

[Anonymous]

This guy asked me something regarding my job. Kind of like a problem I may be having or something I want to implement… so he told me about ChatGPT

He said “let me see your phone “ assertively

Then he downloaded the app on my phone and said he gives the best advice

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, that does seem a liiiiittle sketch that he was so insistent about getting your phone like that. A few thoughts:

- Offering advice is one thing, but directly downloading apps without you initiating it is weirdly pushy behavior on a first date.

- Who knows what else he may have been looking at/for if he had unsupervised access to your phone. Def gives snooping vibes.

- Could just be he wanted to show off his "tech skills" but went about it in a demand-y and uncaring way regarding your privacy/consent. Red flag.

- Might have been trying to get your number/see what other socials you've linked to your phone as a sneaky way to stay connected without outright asking. Too shady.

I'd be wary of seeing him again unless he offered a sincere apology for overstepping and made it clear he understands why demanding your phone wasn't cool. Otherwise this is some possessive controlling type behavior - hard pass sis! You deserve way better from the jump.

[spartan55]

Because he installed an app on your phone? Oh yeah BIG TROUBLE coming 🙄

[DishLady]

So you’re being twitchy about his installing ChatGPT on your phone for you? Hmm… Sounds silly.

[LadyBecks]

I think he was just trying to be helpful