How does a girlfriend improve her boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Slowly and with positive reinforcement.

First off, where many women make thier mistake is they meet a man they're attracted to and think they can completely change him at his core. This is wrong and shouldn't be attempted by anyone. But people will change overtime. Think about it, you're not the same person you were 10 years ago or maybe even 5 years. Ago. Why would you expect that to be different of your partner? If you're with someone you love and respect, generally you want to make them happy. With a soft touch a woman can sand off the rough edges of a guy. But the guy has to be WILLING to want to change. This is where most women make thier mistake.

[slatyb]

I learned something from everyone I dated.