Why does a guy doesn't want to talk with me anymore (he's my friend)?

[Anonymous]

[DaveJord]

So, I would need more details really to answer this. But most guys are "Friends" with women when there is some type of sexual attraction. Even if they never act on it there is usually something there for the guys. So, they maintain the friendship, until it becomes clear it will never be anything more than a "Just Friends" situation, or until another women who definitely wants to be more then "Just Friends" comes along.

Once a guy starts dating another woman, all other women in his life become less important.

And if that is not the case then guys, just get feed up with underlying sexual tension of just being freinds with a woman who is not really interested in anything more than friendship.

But like I said, there is not enough details here for me to give anything other than a general answer. But like others have said if he is a real friend then you should be able to ask him and talk about it.

[NathanDavis]

something must have happened...

I know so, I've been there

[Asker]

What was your reason?

[NathanDavis]

it was not my reasons, but theirs... they did quit, not me

but they had their reasons, and for a reason, that is the point, something must have happened, so you could at least try to find out what was that between the two of you

[Asker]

I usually stop talking with someone if they hurt me too much. Other than that I talk to guys even if I hate them. I don't go out of way trying to hurt them by punishing something too horribly. I will only stop talking if someone hurts me to a point that stopping talking with them is only the way for me to forget their hurt. Does he feel the same reason? Or do you think it might be the different reason? Because I agree that I have hurt him

[NathanDavis]

well, if you two are hurting each other constantly... that seems like a very dysfunctional relationship, so that is going to wear out and strain the both of you... and then, everyone has different limits, perhaps he has reached his limit and is done with it

or maybe he realized that is just not good to keep up with this back and forth

friendships are not usually about hurting one another, at least not in my experience

[Ms_Facesitter]

If he's your friend you should be able to ask him about it. Maybe you hurt him, or maybe he caught feelings and needs space, maybe it's something entirely different. He might be going through a tough time and needs to be on his own for a bit. It could be anything, so don't jump to conclusions and talk to him.

[Anonymous]

This question is very vague but in any case it’s something you should be asking yourself. Maybe you did something wrong or he doesn’t think you’re a compatible friend anymore. Who knows.

[In_Trance]

he found someone else