Why won't he talk to me anymore?

[Anonymous]

we seemed to really clique since the first time I met him. he'd always be flirting, staring me in the eyes, and always asking me to hang out. he asked me to have sex with him, and I kindly refused, but he still held conversations with me after this too. we haven't seen each other in a few weeks, so we talk on IM, but it just seems lately he doesn't really want to hold a conversation, and I think he blocked me on msn, so I only try to talk on fb. someone help! he's a great guy, caring, sweetheart, kind, and basically just a great guy. I really don't understand why he won't talk to me anymore, and I sorta want to know..

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+1 y

hes single.

[JohnHA]

Well.. It's been weeks since you've talked to him? Umm.. That could be one reason, Maybe he felt you neglected him by not talking to him. Maybe he felt he just wanted to have some fun and that's it, and saw that you're not that type of girl. Ummm Maybe he found someone else? That was more of a open minded girl.. to say the least. But if you want to continue talking to him try asking him out, but don't give him the wrong idea.

[Asker]

No no. we talk to each other usually every other day. but we haven't seen each other in a few weeks. but the second thing, I think your right. as like he talks to me whenever he's on the computer, but never really has any interest in talking to me anymore, we talk for what? maybe 5 minutes, then he won't really answer me back. like I don't get it. he said he'd never cheat or anything. but while he's single just wants to have sex with girls, I already know that. but.. I don't know, he told me he

[JohnHA]

We'll you sorta answered your own question. he's just looking for sex and he's being nice not to hurt you.

[RosesInWater]

Maybe he just wanted to have sex with you, and after you said no, he didn't really want to be friends. He might seem sweet and caring and kind, but a lot of guys are pretty good at acting the part. I mean, girls do it too (and probably more often).