I stopped having sex with my friends with benefits a couple weeks ago and just wanted to be friends with him. I haven’t heard from him much. A week after I cut off the benefits he called me wanting to have sex but I told him no. It’s been 3 weeks since I heard from him and he won’t text me back.
u That is because you started as friends with benefiits. That was the basis of the relationship. Sex. Now you have taken that away. He was in it for the sex. You are trying to transition it to something he is not interested in. That is why he is not responding to you. He doesn't want the friendship just the sex part of it. That was what the initial agreement of friends with benefits was built around. So once that is gone you have taken away the part he got involved with you for.
Simple: you stopped sleeping with him, so he has no other reason to associate with you. You based your "friendship" on sex. Without it, he's not interested in you and will find another "friend" to hang out with.
Ladies- this is why you don't do fwbs unless you're okay being with a guy that just wants sex and nothing more!!!
Did the friendship kinda started as friends with benefits? If yes, taking the sex away will result in breaking apart... Since the premise was clear.
The compatibility of the friendship also is pretty important.. If you two have different interests, hobbies and ways of thinking... The friendship will become a lot more distant now.
And lastly, 'ending the benefits part' was something you two talked about it? Or you decided on doing it and didn't inform him?
He is not into friendship thing that’s what it is indicating.
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Well, you don't need to be a human nature expert to answer your question by yourself.
You took the pie away, he has no reason to hangout with you.
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