Career girls, where can you be found and how do I get dates with you?

[Anonymous]

Between your workplace (or home office) and home I am wondering where you can be found and asked out on dates or pre-dates if you will. I am trying 3 online dating services so far: Badoo, Bumble and Hinge. Also I go to Jazz clubs and malls sometimes. I am in a huge well known city and being single here at this point has no excuses.

Sincerely,

A just as busy career dude looking for clues how to find and get you career ladies.

[Guy13]

Your first mistake is being online dating sites.

Your next course of action should be to pick an industry or field that interests you. Then, you research that area whether it be modern periodicals, magazines, or whatever AS LONG AS it is not you tube or the Like. Then you "crash" those conferences or groups or Thursday corporate bar night etc. Both Professional and Social ones.

You are much better off to start on meetup to get a basic idea how to operate in Real Life outside a social media driven paradigm. It can be a full-time job on the front end. Make sure you have your Mess together too. Acceptable to Good criminal, credit, and medical with no debt. Good luck !!

[Avicenna]

Don’t just rely on one method. Meet people through your professional network, family and friends, social or volunteer opportunities and clubs/meetups and judiciously use dating apps as well.