The moment I find a girl has kids she goes from a 10 to a 2 does this make me a POS?

[Anonymous]

I’m sorry ladies but this brings you from a 10 to a 2 doesn’t matter how hot you are.

POS

Normal

[Summeroflove]

No. It’s fine. As long as you don’t see her as lesser or w human being you’re allowed to have standards.


It’s a lot of responsibility to date a woman with children and not something all men are able or wanting to do. Which is understandable.


There is other men who would date them. You don’t have to date anyone

[lightbulb27]

no, you have a right to your feelings.

your feelings are driven by whatever you learned to belief.

you may end up changing what you learned and believe... and your feelings change.

If that happens, you may wish you hadn't passed up on some of those women.

It's worth evaluating why you believe that... for it may be skewing your view of people and impacting your life.

[Anonymous]

" It’s funny girls lose interest like instantly when a guy cheats or shows interest elsewhere. " - that's because a man who cheats has no value in a relationship. The only sort of women who tolerates such as dimwitted little tarts & desperate dimbos.

[Varanus]

Kids are a massive burden on a relationship, even in the best circumstances. I get it.

[Anonymous]

It makes you a wise man. When a woman around your age is a single mother, it is usually due to poor choices / irresponsible behavior on her part, and that should be a huge red flag if a man is looking for a mate. Today, a man cannot be too careful in choosing a mate considering what most women are like these days.

[Asker]

Yea it’s like the biggest investment decision of a man’s life quite frankly unfortunately our dicks are less picky

[Opinion Owner]

Use your brain, not your dick, when making important decisions.

[MCheetah]

No, that's normal. You're not a cuckold and don't want to be changing another man's kid's diapers. I mean, good for all the men who DO want to be willing cucks, but that ain't for me!

[Asker]

I mean it’s different if she’s widowed but if baby daddy is still around it’s not cool 😂

[loveslongnails]

The rating game is usually based on sheer physical beauty, so she's still a 10 physically even if she has kids, but she's not the one you want. You're not a POS because you choose not to get involved with a single mom, especially at your age. However, you "could" become a POS if you berate them or shit talk them simply because they DO have kids.

[Berethor]

Sounds fairly normal to me, many guys don't want to date a single mom, a lot of baggage.

[SnowedIn]

Maybe not a POS, but you're robbing yourself of some awesome women. And kids are pretty great too.

[LazerBean]

That's okay, the moment I find out a guy is promiscuous he goes from an 8 to a 0.

[Asker]

Really? It’s funny girls lose interest like instantly when a guy cheats or shows interest elsewhere. He has to do it tactfully to build insecurity and jealousy

[LazerBean]

Oof looks like I triggered a hoe lol it doesn't even have to come to cheating, promiscuous means anyone who has extra marital sex 🤮 they need to stay out on the streets where they belong

[exitseven]

If she has a couple of toddlers I would not get involved but if the kids were older I might.

[Asker]

After a certain age if she doesn’t have kids she’s crazy I’d say late thirties is a cut off. I’m not there yet so I’m expecting non breeded females

[exitseven]

I am older so maybe I have a different mindset about it than I did 30 years ago

[Andres77]

Don’t ever feel bad for not wanting to raise another guy’s kids

[LiamJHayden]

No, you are entitled to your preferences and rating system.

[clampfan101]

I can understand it going down, but from 10 to 2? That should like quite a harsh cut.

[trina_x]

everybody has preferences