Does this mean I probably should never have kids?

[Anonymous]

Ok so ever since I was a kid/teenI always imagined my adult life to be in a happy relationship and have kids one day.

• I love babies and think they're adorable but whenever I babysit or am around nieces/nephews, they tire me out SO much especially when they misbehave. It's like I get really worked up to the point I want to slap them. I find myself getting stressed and wanting to cry. But that may be because I have beeb stressed anyway. It makes me realise I probably don't have the patience to have any of my own after all.

Yes best to stay childless

No, it might be different when they're your own

[art84]

When my nephew was little it was easy to take care of them as they behaved. I have babysit my nieces who are 8/6 and they just follow me wherever and hyper. They are not like my nephews who were easier to handle, just put a movie for them. I don't have children but like you always wanted to have children in my 20's as a teenager as well. I do get stressed out more from my nephew as he wants everything done for me and always calling me for things. He always bothers me though I don't mind it as I was like that with my parents.

[exitseven]

Every parent gets stressed out sometimes. Having kids is a hard job and like all hard jobs it comes with stress. It is different when it is your own kids but only you can answer the question whether or not to have kids of your own.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Sour-rose]

Hey, if you know you CAN'T take a kid that will be with you until they are 24 and older, i suggest you drop the idea.

[Bethany22]

Yes, remain childless. Your kids will always hate you if you don't have enough energy for them.

[Asker]

Do you have kids?

[Bethany22]

No, but I have the same fears as you

[Asker]

Yeah it's sad because it's not that I don't like kids, it's just I don't feel I got the patience

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes; that's a sign. You shouldn't have kids.