Why does he let me?

[Fzrz6455]

My roommate thinks i am depressed cause i lay in bed all day if i am off work. I am not depressed, at all., i feel like he is gaslighting me, because i am introverted During holidays i dont wanna go out and visit so i stay in bed. I tried making friends but the gitls are aggressive.

[Summeroflove]

Tell him how he makes you feel. Maybe he’s trying to help

[Chris42001]

I feel the same way around the holidays. When I was married we always had 3 big Christmas events. One dinner with my extended family and gift opening, one dinner and gift opening with my ex-wife's big family, and then we had our own traditions at home, just me, her, and our child. Now all these years later and me being single, I would rather just stay in bed at home and sleep.

It sounds like your roommate may be pushing his lifestyle on you, and he doesn't understand that you want time to yourself.