He used to be in poly relationships but now, we are monogamous.
He has been mentioning a lot lately about a friend of his having a crush on me and how he wouldn't mind having us sleep together.
First, I don't really know the man. Second, my fear is that one day, he will come to me wanting to sleep with another woman and tell me it is unfair if I get to do it too.
I have already been in an open and poly relationship. But he keeps arguing that it wasn't done right. Either way, I tried it and I was not secure at all being in that kind of dynamic
I don't know what to do other than talk to him. I know he loves me. But at the same time, despite our time together, I still have a fear that he will leave me for some other woman. And I don't know how to communicate that to him.
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Honestly that’s not love to me. When someone loves u they keep u they cherish u and don’t share their partner with others. On top his friend sounds like a jerk. If he made u sleep with his friend what do u think he will do? Obviously go sleep with other women or already has. Relationships like that don’t have a future. I’m sorry but it’s true. It’s u who will deal with this and I see it doesn’t make u happy. So u gotta think hard love.