Why does he want me now that I lost interest?

[Anonymous]

This guy I used to have a crush on was very flattered by the fact that I admired him but never took me seriously. Now that he noticed that I’m completely over him he started acting nervous around me and made me a romantic playlist (he didn’t share it with me though). Why does he want me now? I was never his type and never will be

[Cynicaldreamer]

Have you heard the old saying, "You want what you can't have?" That's why.

Even though he's not interested in you, he wants you because he wants your attention and you to fawn over him again. I promise if you started to like him again, he'd completely lose interest in you... stupid isn't it? Humans want what they can't have. He can't have you, therefore he wants you even more- that or he realized what he lost and NOW he wants you. Either way, don't fall for it! It shouldn't take you losing interest in him for him to suddenly realize what a catch you are- that's his loss; not yours!

[Asker]

But Why does he flaunt his new girlfriend on Instagram? Like I was not good enough but he is super proud to be with her even though she looks worse than me

[spartan55]

Flaunting her? She looks worse than you? Just leave the dude alone. Maybe it's your lack of humility that drove him off.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you are his type, and it took him a while to realize it.

[Asker]

You mean personality wise? I mean if he didn't find me attractive then i wasn't his type physically

[Opinion Owner]

How do you know he didn't?

[Asker]

his friend found out i liked him and when he told him he said im not his type

[Anonymous]

He realizes he made a mistake and want's another chance.

[Asker]

why did he reject me in the first place if im not thtat bad? he has a girlfriend now

[Opinion Owner]

Consider asking him.