I’m a very shy and reserved guy who’s never dated any girl. The main reason is that, ofc, i’m not that attractive. Another minor cause is that i generally need to get to know a girl well in order to think “she’s not only attractive to me (physically), but she’s also a girl i’d really like to have a relationship with”.
But, as i said, i’m not an attractive guy. Sure, i do workout a lot and keep myself in shape (i do it especially for my self esteem and partly also due to men’s beauty standards imposed). I’m also quite tall, smile often and i generally enjoy having a nice conversation with any person that’s willing to… apart from having my own interests too.
But, on dating sites it was a total failure… 0 likes on every dating app.
At this point, i even quitted p**n due to the fact that i don’t really believe i’ll ever be enough in order to have a serious relationship (and with that, ofc also intimacy) with a girl i really like. So, spending time thinking about my fantasies would make things worse in my opinion.
I don’t know… i’m seriously lost. Any kind of advice would be great, thanks.
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If a woman doesn’t accept you for who you are. She isn’t worth your time anyways. You shouldn’t have to beg for someone’s validation or love. It’s not meant to be.
I really do feel there is someone out there for almost everyone
You’re not missing anything bro trust me yes girls are pretty but they are insanely annoying they will drive you crazy even a good one the female species are an enigma they don’t think like you and me 18 to 25 is crunch time for men get your shit together and secure bro
focus on your future right now the women will come trust me but when they do I must warn that your penis is on their side be strong brother you must be diligent
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