Dating

[M19] I’ve never felt good enough for dating. What can I do?

I’m a very shy and reserved guy who’s never dated any girl. The main reason is that, ofc, i’m not that attractive. Another minor cause is that i generally need to get to know a girl well in order to think “she’s not only attractive to me (physically), but she’s also a girl i’d really like to have a relationship with”.


But, as i said, i’m not an attractive guy. Sure, i do workout a lot and keep myself in shape (i do it especially for my self esteem and partly also due to men’s beauty standards imposed). I’m also quite tall, smile often and i generally enjoy having a nice conversation with any person that’s willing to… apart from having my own interests too.


But, on dating sites it was a total failure… 0 likes on every dating app.


At this point, i even quitted p**n due to the fact that i don’t really believe i’ll ever be enough in order to have a serious relationship (and with that, ofc also intimacy) with a girl i really like. So, spending time thinking about my fantasies would make things worse in my opinion.


I don’t know… i’m seriously lost. Any kind of advice would be great, thanks.

[M19] I’ve never felt good enough for dating. What can I do?
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