I’m a very shy and reserved guy who’s never dated any girl. The main reason is that, ofc, i’m not that attractive. Another minor cause is that i generally need to get to know a girl well in order to think “she’s not only attractive to me (physically), but she’s also a girl i’d really like to have a relationship with”.
But, as i said, i’m not an attractive guy. Sure, i do workout a lot and keep myself in shape (i do it especially for my self esteem and partly also due to men’s beauty standards imposed). I’m also quite tall, smile often and i generally enjoy having a nice conversation with any person that’s willing to… apart from having my own interests too.
But, on dating sites it was a total failure… 0 likes on every dating app.
At this point, i even quitted p**n due to the fact that i don’t really believe i’ll ever be enough in order to have a serious relationship (and with that, ofc also intimacy) with a girl i really like. So, spending time thinking about my fantasies would make things worse in my opinion.
I don’t know… i’m seriously lost. Any kind of advice would be great, thanks.
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You have your priorities all wrong. If young men focused as much on their life purpose as they did on women and dating, their lives would improve no end. What is your life purpose? Why are you here? How are you going to become financially free? Own your own home? investments? business? You already workout which is great. Continue staying away from pron because it's designed to keep you down. Forget all of these concerns about dating and women. When you get on your true life purpose that will fall into place because you will know who you are and why you were put on this planet.
Date until you do.
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