Girls- How do you live with a boyfriend, meet family & plan trips with a boyfriend, plan baby , if your boyfriend says no?

[Sugar100]

I want plan with a guy trips together, plan couple pics, plan meet family, plan holidays spend it at each others families house, plan live together, plan have babies, but how do girls do this if a guy will say no?
I never had a boyfriend and I’m scared if I get a boyfriend , he’ll deny all these things & I will be sad. I think the point of a boyfriend is to do all those things together , not just date and sex.

I’ll be 27 and never had a offical boyfriend never had a guy say do u want be my girlfriend? So I have huge fear anxiety, to ask a guy all these things as he’ll reject me and say no.

one guy I dated and knew 7 years he denied me all these things said NO all the time. 😓I fear all guys will be the same and say NO.

[Anonymous]

If you constantly live in fear of being rejected, you’ll never find someone worth doing all of these things with. There are guys out there who do want all of these things, but you need to be willing to be upfront about what you want in order to find them. Don’t be afraid to lay down all your cards at the beginning.

[Sugar100]

I tell many boys that I want a relationship and they all deny me and only want friends with benefits. I cannot find a single guy that I like that likes me back as in wanting a relationship

Many boys say they like me or I beaitful but none of them ask for a date or want be my offical boyfriend.

[Sugar100]

I’ve been searching daily for a boyfriend for a year , I’m spedning my whole year of being 26 trying to find a boyfriend and cannot get a boyfriend

[Sugar100]

I only met one guy on a dating app that wants. A wife girlfriend but he is in a wheelchair& lives far away.

The one guy I loved is my crush , we spent 3 days together at my job and then we got separated as we worked diffeeebt shfits and lost contact as we both didn’t act fast and give numbers and we both fired.

[Sugar100]

Even at my job I met 100 boys and none became my boyfriend and wen my crush came back to the job, we were together & i felt he was my partner. ☹️

[Sugar100]

I’m alone without him 😔 maybe he was the right guy for me

[Opinion Owner]

If he was the right guy for you, he would be with you. But he’s not. I had a crush on a guy who I thought was the one for me. We were good friends, his family loved me, and all of our mutual friends thought we would be perfect together. But it didn’t happen. He wasn’t interested. I spent the majority of my 20s searching for a boyfriend while simultaneously pining after this guy who wasn’t interested.

[Opinion Owner]

I met my fiancé on a dating app. There are a few reasons why the both of us worked out; I was upfront about what I wanted, we both had the same desires for the future, and I was open and willing to move. Try to broaden your horizons past the place where you currently live and where you currently work.

[Sugar100]

How cud my crush be with me if we r fired? he’s not with me becuase we lost contact at the job, we weren’t able to exchange numbers , I worked morning and he worked nite shift.

[Sugar100]

I met a lookalike on a dating app but he lives in another state but I don't know if he’ll be my boyfriend.

[Sugar100]

Like I said even as I’m open to guys I’m looking for a boyfriend no guy wants the same as me, the more guys I meet I continue be rejected. All men only want friends with benefits sex. No girlfriend. If I say I want a boyfriend I get blocked. I never meet a guy that’s on same page as me. I’ve met 100 men already

[Opinion Owner]

Get to know him more and ask.

[Sugar100]

He doesn’t text me daily tho, he don’t text at all. I fear the worst if I ask him what we are , he’ll deny be my boyfriend and again I’m sad alone and part ways with him.

[Sugar100]

The more n more guys I meet none want be my boyfriend. They all only want sex that’s it. 😞it’s impossible find a guy I love that loves me back. I cannot find a single guy that agrees be my boyfriend

[Sugar100]

I’m almsot 30 and I cannot make any guy my first boyfriend. I cannot even make a guy meet my family everyone runs away! ☹️ i never in my life had a boyfriend

[Sugar100]

How is long distance. a boyfriend? It won’t work unless we meet family and spend holidays together but again I cannot get a guy do all this with me , no guy wants be my boyfriend or meet family.

I look single being alone. Texting isn’t a serious relationship or a boyfriend

[DrPepper12]

If you have open communication and genuine affection for each other shouldn't be a problem at all.

[Pterodon]

You don’t and get a boyfriend that says yes

[Sugar100]

You don’t what?

[Pterodon]

You don’t plan

[Sugar100]

I thought it girls plan all this with a. Boy?

[Sugar100]

I’m almost 30 never had a boyfriend I don’t have time to waste. I need a first boyfriend before 30.

[Pterodon]

I’m sorry but good luck

[Sugar100]

I’ve met 300 men already how many more men I need meet that will say yes he want be my boyfriend?

[Sugar100]

The only guys that wanted be my boyfriend was a guy in Ireland and a guy far in a wheelchair that’s it

[CubaPirate]

Get a boyfriend that says yes obviously

[Sugar100]

No one says yes

[Sugar100]

How many more men do I need meet that will say yes he want be my boyfriend? I’ve met 300 men already

[LEGENDARY4200]

Communication

[Sugar100]

I have huge fear now that all guys will say NO. And then I’ll need dump and never find my person. 😔 I never even had a real boyfriend that I can plan all these things with. I plan my life alone in my head, I’m planing have a baby Christmas s this year and a guy spend Christmas with me and my family but no guy is even my boyfriend LOL

[LEGENDARY4200]

You don't know till you ask not all guys will so no

[LEGENDARY4200]

As far as the boyfriend. Try talking to random people. Doesn't matter about what