Girls, what would have you do if you are pregnant from a guy your dating & he wants dump you if you keep the baby?

[Sugar100]

And he forces you to swallow a plan b pill and if not he’ll leave you for trying to have his baby?

do you just swallow the pill do what he says and be sad as you wanted a baby?

do you be pregnant and alone pregnancy and leave the guy?

[RxR0954]

I’d dump the dude because noone get to tell me what to do with my body whether if it’s to keep it or abort it, and i’d get an abortion after since i never wanted children anyway.

[Sugar100]

So when your old u won’t be lonely with no children of your own to talk to or take care of u? no bdsy parties of your children to attend when u r older? No grandchildren?

[RxR0954]

It’s selfish to have children just because you are afraid to be alone with nobody to talk to or care for you when you’re old. I would never want to push that kind of responsibility on my kids. If i were to have kids it’d be because i want to give them the life and childhood i never had, not because i want a personal nurse when i’m old. Caring for elders is exhausting and i know it, and i know it would be best to have a professional (someone i pay for) looking after me when im old and unable to care for myself. I have planned it all out. I have a partner and we also planned what will happen if one of us have dementia. I work in mental health so i know which condition need professional intervention. You can’t expect untrained people, especially your kids, to take on the hard job that others need qualifications to work in, it would be extremely stressful and dangerous for your kids, and for you.

[Anonymous]

I’d dump and block him. Then put him on child support.

Plan b doesn’t cause abortion. It just delays ovulation to prevent conception/pregnancy to happen. It doesn’t do anything if you already ovulated or are pregnant.

[Sugar100]

I never had a boyfriend or accidental pregnancy haven’t had sex in 4 years. I’m just wondering what girls would do

[Sugar100]

How would you have pregnancy alone if your job didn’t pay well? How u pay rent alone pregnant working all day?

[WonderingManII]

Speaking from a pro life Christian perspective, I think you have the baby anyways, and if you can't handle being a mother, then put it up for adoption.

[RxR0954]

You should be in foster care and orphanages as a child to experience it before telling people to birth babies just to push them into a system that is detrimental to any human being

[WonderingManII]

@RxR0954 You would rather murder the baby?

[RxR0954]

Aborting a fetus is not the same as killing a child

[WonderingManII]

@RxR0954 Why do they call it a baby shower instead of a fetus shower? A baby is a fetus, and a fetus is a baby.

[RxR0954]

Lol that is not true, a fetus is in the womb dependent on the host body to live. A baby is out of the womb

[WonderingManII]

@RxR0954 So just cause it needs the mother to survive means it is not a human being? I think that is just a loophole so a woman can feel ok that she is murdering her unborn child.

[RxR0954]

Just because it’s a human being, doesn’t mean it separate the definition of a fetus from a baby. Believe me i grew up in a culture that hold the same view that you have. You have to understand your perception of “abortion is murder” is cultural and also influenced by religious ideologies, not facts nor science. I explained to you what need to be explained. But apparently you hold a very strong view against abortion and you haven’t had much experience or knowledge on the subject.

[RxR0954]

*Just because it’s a human being doesn’t mean it erases the distinction between a fetus and a baby

[WonderingManII]

@RxR0954 I would be scared to live close to you, because you think science belief gives you the right to murder so that you can enjoy an orgasm.

[RxR0954]

Well i hope that you stay single and don’t have any daughters…

[WonderingManII]

@RxR0954 Probably will happen! But at least I don't murder anyone.

[RxR0954]

Lol bold for you to assume i have had an abortion to be proc choice. But anyways, i feel bad for your daughter and your partner. You never know what life throws at you.

[WonderingManII]

@RxR0954 You don't need to feel bad for my daughter or partner, cause I don't have any. It doesn't matter if you had an abortion or not. Just the fact that you are for abortion means you are just as bad as if you had one.

[RxR0954]

Right… that’s probably why you’re single and childless, cuz no woman want to be with men like you, hope that helps:)

[WonderingManII]

@RxR0954 Honestly I don't want to be with them either. They are the reason why this world is turning to crap.

[RxR0954]

Women is the reason why the world is turning into crap? Oh well not very Christian of you i see.

[WonderingManII]

@RxR0954 If the shoe fits.

[DryGermanGuy]

I do hope you're only "asking for a friend". :-|

[NathanDavis]

they should go to police... and get a lawyer too

[slatyb]

You get the hell away from him and do what you want.

[Kelly6]

@Sugar100 best idea is to eat the pill, as he is just dating.

[Sugar100]

I never had a boyfriend, Its just a question im asking to see what girls do in this situation. I haven’t had sex in 3 years

[DJB72]

Leave the guy and sue for child support.