+1 yI'll only date women who'd want to keep the child. Who make that clear up front. I won't tolerate games, or ambiguity.
If she for one second tells me that she believes killing her offspring to dodge her responsibility for her actions in bed is a viable option, I won't date her in the first place.
The murder may yet happen; but it won't be my contribution to the gene pool that she will be potentially eternally responsible for. It will be her, and whomever the other sucker was. Because I'll be gone. If you cannot love my child, then what am I to you?40 Reply
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+1 yI had this discussion with my boyfriend.
if we get pregnant he would be very happy.
for many who just have fun using sex will ended up bad. if no discussion on the topic.. the guy gave up his right to make such decision. It’s the girl who will end up taking the responsibility.
for those who are committed and communicate... they are mature to handle when they get pregnant.00 Reply
You need to treat her experiences as your own. And take responsibility for that child (fetus) no matter what happens. Sure you may feel or experience being an outsider to her experience but this is your Sperm and one half of this child is yours. Take pride in this and support her in every way you can.
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+1 yShe can do how she prefers, honestly - I'd accept either choice.
But she shouldn't pull the crap she pulled on me last spring - if I remember well, you know what happened.20 Reply
+1 yYou mean if she didn't want it and I wanted it? Actually I wouldn't too but let's say hypothetically she didn't want it and I wanted it.
I would breeak up with her . Not because she didn't want it. But because that just shows our relationship is not something long term. Why would I waste my time on a person who wouldn't even have a kid with me. I wouldn't be surprised if she said no to marriage later down the road.
That would show she is not in it for long term. Just for fun. BUT...
Although there could be infinite reasons for not wanting a kid like financial situations , health complications etc. That is reasonable
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But if that's not the case and everything is good in life. Why would she say no. There can only be one reason and I said it above. She doesn't view the relationship as something long term10 Reply
+1 yEvery time that I start dating or having a long term intimate relationship with someone, I make it clear that If they ever leave me pregnant I 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 most likely abort it.
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+1 yI talked about this with my boyfriend before. If he accidentally got me pregnant he’d support me whether I wanted to terminate the pregnancy or keep the baby.
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+1 yReason with her about why abortion is not the right solution.
Obviously I can’t actually do anything physically
to stop her.
I’ll do what I can within reason to have her avert this position/action.
If she still wants to abort I’m leaving her
No “I’m going to stay with her still,” “I’ll respect her choice,” “it’s her body, her choice bro,” or “Whatever she decides, I’ll go with.”
Coward, low-quality, and pussy-whipped men.10 Reply2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. It's a tough place to be... I so want to be a father that it would be and what's even more painful is to say that that if she had it and she wanted it but I did not she would tell me to get lost because it's her body so either way she has the luxury of choice as a woman. But if I could not convince her reasonably, I'd help take her to an abortion clinic to do it with her. But later ask her for children later or if we could use her eggs for a surrogate mother
11 Reply1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Wait the nine months while literally watching her the whole time to make sure she doesn't abort the poor kid, and then when she was gonna give birth I would put a sleep mask over her eyes and earp[lugs in her ears so that her motherly instincts wouldn't activate, and then put the baby up for adoption. but if she was my girlfriend she wouldn't get pregnant in the first place.
00 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Throw a party? music to my ears that be. If she wanted to keep it, even tho she would be my girlfriend and know how i felt about having a child beforehand. Then that's a betrayal. Because it means she would of been lying this whole time about been on the same page of not having one.
And if she then thought she is gonna get me to pay for childcare she has another thing coming.00 Reply833 opinions shared on Dating topic. It happened to my wife and I. Unfortunately the condom broke. She didn't know what she wanted to do. I told her I'd stand by her whatever her choice was because it's her body and I was responsible for putting her in this predicament. I went with her to every o. b. , dr. , Planned parenthood, and therapist Appointment. We decided to have the baby. It is a girl who is now 29 years old.
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+1 yWe've talked about it. He'd said he'd go with what my choice was.
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+1 yWhat do you think? hang her up in a basement by her wrists and keep her alive until she gives birth?
No! Of course not! If you're pregnant and abortion is available then he'd probably just tell you to go ahead and do what you have to do and leave it at that. If you wanted to keep it though, well that's a completely different question and depends entirely on what guy we're talking about.10 Reply- 931 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yNo sex before marriage, that's my rule miss agape... if my future housewife got pregnant than for sure she will be soooo happy to tell me the news so we celebrate her the pregnancy cause it's a blessing from god...
I'll surely invite the loved ones for barbecues and desserts 😌
Ofc the wife will get lots of kisses and her tummy will be kissed every night before she sleeps 😊10 Reply - 3.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yIf she were pregnant, and did not want to keep it, I would not be with her. It would likely lead to breakup. Nor would i pay for the abortion. I would not force her to keep it, its her choice, But i want to be a dad, If she wanted to make that choice, our relationship would be over.
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+1 yAbortion:
Sorry for the folks in the back that don't wanna hear this but i dont wanna put her through an unwanted pregnancy that we weren't prepared for, nor do i want to put that poor kid up for adoption, which could really mess them up.20 Reply1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Take her to the Abortion Place to have the Abortion done
It's not that serious of an issue tbh30 ReplyIt has to be her choice. A woman has to go through the process of carrying a baby and then giving birth... not an easy task. I’m pro choice, she has the right to make that decision WITHOUT any pressure and it’s the MANS DUTY to respect it either way.
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+1 yi will convince to have it... and give it to me, sge will be invited to back to the ñife of the creature whenever she wants. if she abort ( kill my son or daughter) I will never forgive her. i can take the baby if she cannot hold the responsability. she only need to carry it for less than a year. and if she whant to be part of his/her life will be always wellcome and no shame word will be given. but if she kill one of my son of daughters, god forgive her cause i will not.
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+1 yI would do what ever it took to change her mind & if that failed then I would probably leave her for being to petty & horrible. I think I would make a good dad if given half a chance.
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+1 yI don't really want kids so sounds like a dodge a bullet, if i did then it's still her choice.
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U R not man enough to take care of 1 of Gods babies anyway !
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Eh okay, so in your opinion to be a man i have to have a child even though i don't want one?
+1 yIf she didn't want it? Well I would support her decision.
20 ReplyI will never abort. Even if it’s rape, abortion is wrong and I would raise it myself. My boyfriend says that he will stand by me no matter what, which is what any real man would do for you.
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+1 yI’ve had this thought before. If she killed my baby, I’d have to leave her on never speak to her again. If she didn’t want it, I’d take it and raise it without her.
20 ReplyI would support her decision what ever it is mam, cause she is the one who has to carry the child and suffer the pain of delivery. If she says she doesn't want it then I will support her.
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+1 yLet us go further... you mean I want the baby but she aborts it?
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I would want the child.
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Love him or her and be a daddy.
It wouldn't be mine , I have been firing blanks for about 28 years..
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+1 yAbortion. Although I'd prefer to use protection always but alas, abortion it'd be (last resort).
10 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Encourage her to put the baby up for adoption and be financially supportive until the baby was adopted.
10 Reply3.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Be supportive and help her however she needed help.
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+1 yThere is not much I could do cause of laws but the most I could do is take a break from her and our relationship to I can gather my thoughts cause abortion is not good at all and very sad :(
00 Reply4.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Tell her to have the guy who got her pregnant help her make the decision.
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+1 yIf we broke up before she gave birth I would stay with her.
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+1 yYou should let her decide because that's her body and that's her choice. I suggest you not to force her to give birth.
20 ReplyTake into consideration, our relationship, our future together and whether we are in a potion to take care of a child, if not agree with her and go throught the process together
00 Reply5.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. There is nothing a man in this situation could do even if he wanted to. I would just be supportive and understanding even if I didn't agree with her decision.
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+1 yI would try my best to convince Her to keep it. I'll be there to Help Her.
20 Reply4.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Tell her that I would raise our child by myself if need be.
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But a child can never grow up without a mother. How will you give your child maternal love?
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How will you find? Can the stepmother replace the biological mother? I really can't understand men's stepmother admiration. You will either not tear the children away from their mothers or you let your wife abortion the child in her womb.
2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Depends on how long we been in a relationship, how old i am, how much money i have but i pretty much say ok
00 Reply3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Depends on whether it's mine or she cheated and got pregnant by another guy.
00 Reply3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. 1) Call myself an idiot. I didn't want it either
2) Finance the abortion10 Reply
+1 ySince we both wouldn't want it, I'd use her stomach as a heavy bag for boxing practice.
10 ReplyI think you mean, what can you do. Answer is nothing. Men’s feelings on it is meaningless. Women get all the say. They also get to sue men for child support when they do want it. So either way men get fucked so.
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Get to know her... understand each pet her before sex... will eliminate some of these issues.
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@OlderAndWiser don’t delete these, I just want you to be aware of him and his other accounts.
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I am glad you let that out...
I wish you are in my first grade class when you were younger.
This is a place you can share, connect...
Thank you for your opinion...
Be really mad at her , convince her to put it up for adoption
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+1 yWell after birth I'll take the baby she can disappear.
10 ReplyIf you don't want kids wait until you get married before you open them legs. Simple
00 Reply748 opinions shared on Dating topic. I'd support her in her decision.
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+1 yThank god, saves me having to ask
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+1 ySupport her decision whatever it may be
30 Reply There's some options you could give up for adoption when it's born or if it's still early enough to where you can get abortion
02 ReplyLet her make the decision she prefers.
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Even with YOUR baby? Fucking beta male
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+1 yThis is why you don't have sex before marriage.
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+1 yRespect her decision on the matter
20 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. I would support her decision.
10 Reply854 opinions shared on Dating topic. I would support her decision
20 Reply1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Well, thank fuck for that.
20 ReplyI want the baby. I would dump her
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+1 yThis is one reason why I’m waiting until marriage.
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+1 yI would take my child after birth.
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+1 yUnderstand her wishes if different then mine.
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Beta cuck
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@warrenstone - says you they guy getting none.
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I just got some last weekend
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Sucks to be you.
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Ok beta cuck
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Cause being an alpha would make you da man for killing a baby.
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I’m saying I wouldn’t kill the baby. I would raise it. Lmao
+1 yI would have a problem if she didn't.
10 ReplyAbortion is only solution
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