Guys, if your girlfriend got pregnant and she didn’t want it, what would you do?

[OlderAndWiser]

At my age, the women I date are all post-menopausal, so I will never face this scenario. If, by some chance, it did happen (wake up, OlderAndWiser, wake up! You're dreaming!) i would try to persuade her to have the child and for us to raise the child together. If she didn't want to do that, I would ask her to have the child and allow me to raise it. I do not accept abortion as an option for people who simply fail to use birth control effectively.

[ObscuredBeyond]

I'll only date women who'd want to keep the child. Who make that clear up front. I won't tolerate games, or ambiguity.

If she for one second tells me that she believes killing her offspring to dodge her responsibility for her actions in bed is a viable option, I won't date her in the first place.

The murder may yet happen; but it won't be my contribution to the gene pool that she will be potentially eternally responsible for. It will be her, and whomever the other sucker was. Because I'll be gone. If you cannot love my child, then what am I to you?

[midnightmoon05]

I had this discussion with my boyfriend.
if we get pregnant he would be very happy.
for many who just have fun using sex will ended up bad. if no discussion on the topic.. the guy gave up his right to make such decision. It’s the girl who will end up taking the responsibility.
for those who are committed and communicate... they are mature to handle when they get pregnant.

[FlyGirl95]

You need to treat her experiences as your own. And take responsibility for that child (fetus) no matter what happens. Sure you may feel or experience being an outsider to her experience but this is your Sperm and one half of this child is yours. Take pride in this and support her in every way you can.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

She can do how she prefers, honestly - I'd accept either choice.
But she shouldn't pull the crap she pulled on me last spring - if I remember well, you know what happened.

[NarutoUzumaki007]

You mean if she didn't want it and I wanted it? Actually I wouldn't too but let's say hypothetically she didn't want it and I wanted it.

I would breeak up with her . Not because she didn't want it. But because that just shows our relationship is not something long term. Why would I waste my time on a person who wouldn't even have a kid with me. I wouldn't be surprised if she said no to marriage later down the road.

That would show she is not in it for long term. Just for fun. BUT...

Although there could be infinite reasons for not wanting a kid like financial situations , health complications etc. That is reasonable
.
But if that's not the case and everything is good in life. Why would she say no. There can only be one reason and I said it above. She doesn't view the relationship as something long term

[Kaneki05]

Throw a party? music to my ears that be. If she wanted to keep it, even tho she would be my girlfriend and know how i felt about having a child beforehand. Then that's a betrayal. Because it means she would of been lying this whole time about been on the same page of not having one.

And if she then thought she is gonna get me to pay for childcare she has another thing coming.

[worldscolide]

If she were pregnant, and did not want to keep it, I would not be with her. It would likely lead to breakup. Nor would i pay for the abortion. I would not force her to keep it, its her choice, But i want to be a dad, If she wanted to make that choice, our relationship would be over.

[DanaeAdam5]

Every time that I start dating or having a long term intimate relationship with someone, I make it clear that If they ever leave me pregnant I 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 most likely abort it.

[locutus9999]

i will convince to have it... and give it to me, sge will be invited to back to the ñife of the creature whenever she wants. if she abort ( kill my son or daughter) I will never forgive her. i can take the baby if she cannot hold the responsability. she only need to carry it for less than a year. and if she whant to be part of his/her life will be always wellcome and no shame word will be given. but if she kill one of my son of daughters, god forgive her cause i will not.

[StarryCrossing]

I talked about this with my boyfriend before. If he accidentally got me pregnant he’d support me whether I wanted to terminate the pregnancy or keep the baby.

[EmbraceThePain]

Reason with her about why abortion is not the right solution.


Obviously I can’t actually do anything physically
to stop her.


I’ll do what I can within reason to have her avert this position/action.


If she still wants to abort I’m leaving her


No “I’m going to stay with her still,” “I’ll respect her choice,” “it’s her body, her choice bro,” or “Whatever she decides, I’ll go with.”
Coward, low-quality, and pussy-whipped men.

[Jjpayne]

It's a tough place to be... I so want to be a father that it would be and what's even more painful is to say that that if she had it and she wanted it but I did not she would tell me to get lost because it's her body so either way she has the luxury of choice as a woman. But if I could not convince her reasonably, I'd help take her to an abortion clinic to do it with her. But later ask her for children later or if we could use her eggs for a surrogate mother

[meartila]

I think you mean, what can you do. Answer is nothing. Men’s feelings on it is meaningless. Women get all the say. They also get to sue men for child support when they do want it. So either way men get fucked so.

[WesBrewer]

Wait the nine months while literally watching her the whole time to make sure she doesn't abort the poor kid, and then when she was gonna give birth I would put a sleep mask over her eyes and earp[lugs in her ears so that her motherly instincts wouldn't activate, and then put the baby up for adoption. but if she was my girlfriend she wouldn't get pregnant in the first place.

[SunnySri]

I would support her decision what ever it is mam, cause she is the one who has to carry the child and suffer the pain of delivery. If she says she doesn't want it then I will support her.

[Wiredone]

It happened to my wife and I. Unfortunately the condom broke. She didn't know what she wanted to do. I told her I'd stand by her whatever her choice was because it's her body and I was responsible for putting her in this predicament. I went with her to every o. b. , dr. , Planned parenthood, and therapist Appointment. We decided to have the baby. It is a girl who is now 29 years old.

[SamtheDnDgirl]

We've talked about it. He'd said he'd go with what my choice was.

[Blistersonmybrain]

What do you think? hang her up in a basement by her wrists and keep her alive until she gives birth?

No! Of course not! If you're pregnant and abortion is available then he'd probably just tell you to go ahead and do what you have to do and leave it at that. If you wanted to keep it though, well that's a completely different question and depends entirely on what guy we're talking about.

[TonyMetal___86]

No sex before marriage, that's my rule miss agape... if my future housewife got pregnant than for sure she will be soooo happy to tell me the news so we celebrate her the pregnancy cause it's a blessing from god...

I'll surely invite the loved ones for barbecues and desserts 😌

Ofc the wife will get lots of kisses and her tummy will be kissed every night before she sleeps 😊

[Allie2468]

I will never abort. Even if it’s rape, abortion is wrong and I would raise it myself. My boyfriend says that he will stand by me no matter what, which is what any real man would do for you.

[ecfresh]

Be supportive and help her however she needed help.

[FriendlyEnigma]

Abortion:

Sorry for the folks in the back that don't wanna hear this but i dont wanna put her through an unwanted pregnancy that we weren't prepared for, nor do i want to put that poor kid up for adoption, which could really mess them up.

[pigoat]

Take her to the Abortion Place to have the Abortion done

It's not that serious of an issue tbh