Guys, what would you do if you accidentally got a girl pregnant?

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WOrtiz13 · Accepted Answer

My ex once tried to be "funny" and say that she was pregnant (even though I'm refraining from sex until marriage), but in that moment, I freaked out.

After a couple moments have passed (and as she kept playing along), I tried to see what I could do for her. She already knew I'd be the best father ever if a kid ever did come along.

If she was telling the truth, I'd support her and be there for her throughout absolutely everything. I'd support her personally, financially, and any other possible way. I'd just try to "mature up" if you understand what I mean by that

SmoMan · Accepted Answer

I am not sure any guy can answer that with 100% honesty. It is almost like asking what would you do if you got shot at. Most people have never been in that situation and it is hard to tell if you can keep your calm or if you would freak out.

With her other health problems a pregnancy would probably kill my girlfriend so it would be really bad in the event that our precautions failed. That is why I am looking into getting a vasectomy.

FrenchEmma · Accepted Answer

I'm ot a guy but I think they just should support her whatever the choice she makes (abortion or keep the baby). If she chooses to keep the baby the boy should take care of him and help the girl but if he doesn't love the girl, he shouldn't feel forced to marry her

ChocoLada · Accepted Answer

He would marry me and we would have kids ;) Right @AleDeEurope? ;) <3

JRICHARDS1996 · Answer

It is a topic I am passionate about as my mother had me at 15. I think if I accidentally got a girl pregnant, my first instinct would be to beg her not to have an abortion since I would never be able to live with myself knowing that my child was murdered. I have no respect whatsoever for men who abandon their children or try to convince the female to get an abortion.

Assuming she took my advice and decided to keep it, I would propose marriage solely for the sake of the child. I would feel that it is the best thing to do since children who grow up in that arrangement have it easiest. Would it suck for us? Probably. But our interests are irrelevant now to the interests of the child whom we have a duty to raise.

If she didn't want that, then I would beg her to give me full custody of the baby after its birth so that I could raise it as a single dad. I wouldn't hold her accountable to child support or anything.

LorcaNovena · Answer

I would help her through her pregnancy and would offer her financial support and help raise my child. I was abandoned by my Father at a young age and that has had negative effects on me over the years.

stubbsy · Answer

Be a man about it and support her through the difficult time ahead and hope that such a mistake brings us closer together and not draw us apart, and be a father to the child regardless of the outcome, and help her raise the child we have together. Among other essentials of course, but I only get 2500 characters so thought I would mention the basics, x

Anonymous · Answer

I honestly haven't a clue.

I don't do casual sex and I've no intention of getting into a serious relationship anytime soon but if I was involved in a short term thing and she got pregnant, I would be pretty terrified. I would have to get a job and work God knows how many hours rather than work on my education and my own problems.

It's her decision but, as bad as it sounds, I'd feel relieved if I wasn't involved.

That's just me though. I'm sure guys are completely different on this and I've no idea how I'd really react anyway.

reptocarl · Answer

What I did was marry her... big mistake. If I didn't love her I'd be in the kids life and pay child support like you're supposed to

Xelebrum · Answer

I don't do casual sex, so if I accidentally got my girlfriend pregnant, I would still stay with her. And I would do what I could to be there for my child, should she choose to keep him/her.

ThatJarHead · Answer

Freak out about it. Then once I get my head on straight tell her to abort it. I know that's heartless but I'm simply not ready for a child. Besides, I'm married and my wife doesn't want kids at all. So I doubt she would even give me an option to keep it.

tony72722 · Answer

I'd run. JK. I've had a pregnancy scare before at the age of 19. I told her I'll do whatever it takes to get her through the pregnancy but we both agreed to put the baby up for adoption. Unfortunately she had a miscarriage.

ichot · Answer

Question will scream in my mind.. why didn't she take plan B? Then suggest abortion. If she refuses I jump off a building. I'm a no-child person.

But for a partner of mine to get pregnant... That would have to be one super strong egg and sperm because I'd always recommend IUD. Using Condoms as a way to protect each other until we're confirmed clean.

Anonymous · Answer

I would feel very anxious, and nervous, would probably talk to her about raising the child, and the sacrifices we would both have to make.
This happened, with my ex-girlfriend and she didn't tell me she was pregnant and had an abortion, i was very shook up, because she thought i would leave her if i found out. that couldnt be further from the truth.

Scrimshaw · Answer

It will never happen because I'm too smart for that to happen. If it did then I will pay and book the abortion for her.

JCT666 · Answer

Well, I don't do casual sex like someone else said, so it is unlikely it will happen to me.

But if it did happen and she wanted to keep the baby then I will take care of her and I'll probably find a job to support ourselves too.

AnonKuma · Answer

Take responsibility and seek help from parents. Also take a step back and gotta plan what to do now for the future.

abhiplayer1996 · Answer

I would never do it with her even if I have a slightest doubt of having future with her. Even if the situation falls on me... I would rather accept the fact and love her as she's baring my child. I'll always keep her like a queen...

dudegrt09 · Answer

Whoa that would be a shock to me, if she'll decide to keep the baby I'll have to marry her

Raouduke710 · Answer

Lose my mind for a night and lay out plans for several bank/armored truck robberies if things don't go well. Get myself together and be with the girl every choice and step unless I was getting yelled at. Then destroy anytime that came to harm the child until I died.

Prof_Don · Answer

I'd talk with her and see if she will keep it, give it up for adoption or have an abortion. What I wouldn't do is run away.

Octavius · Answer

double up on classes to try and finish school early so I can get a good career. Babies are expensive.

Anonymous · Answer

Take responsibility. Marry her. And get a serious job.

Svengodofman · Answer

Deal with it and support my child. If the kid and I share DNA he/she is mine, and is therefore my responsibility.

Shyguy_1988 · Answer

Probably ask if I could take care of the kid... I'm serious. But that won't ever happen so I don't have to worry about it!

SomeKindOfPerson · Answer

That's the stuff of nightmares. It really is.  I have no idea. Personally, I don't want kids. Obviously, unless we decide on an abortion, that wouldn't be applicable anymore.

jjfrancis · Answer

panic for the first day or so, then i would try to convince her to get an abortion, or talk about adoption, because there is no possible way for me to support a family being this broke :P

Maverickj · Answer

It wouldn't be my fault as I'd always use a condom and some other contraceptive. I would not want to keep it.

canadianLAD · Answer

is it an accident if you did it bareback knowing there was risk and you did it anyway?

TheInfamus · Answer

It'll never happen to me. I'm a virgin and I probably won't lose it

CapitanMurica · Answer

Man up and take care of the kid like a true Alpha, just kidding I'd probably disappear and keep spreading my seed as evolution intended..

Anonymous · Answer

She's got to prove it's mine. I'm not taking her word for it.

EXJ444 · Answer

I just wouldn't get a girl pregnant by accident

Dat_Kid · Answer

Be the dad? That's all I can do

Thrifty · Answer

Open a joint checking account for my baby momma.

JadedandReckless · Answer

They'll marry her from what I observed,

PublicEnemyNumber-1 · Answer

Accumulate money for an abortion.

medical2523 · Answer

I would marry her and we raise our child together

apple24 · Answer

Its impossible I am a girl! Its totally not mines!

Jackblue · Answer

Offer to marry her.

LordZero · Answer

I would marry her.

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