I'm not sure. I don't really like the idea since if my significant other wants to let go I'll let him. I don't want to be trapped in a bad relationship. But no matter what you can't change that your partner is pregnant but most of all it's your child. You still helped in creating a baby its best if you can take the responsibility seriously. You don't need to be really as in together to both take care of your child, right? No matter what happens that child is innocent dont involve him or her on your problem guys. Are you sure though? Maybe the pills just didn't work?
Omg that is so fucking stupid. I’m not going to lie iv been there before. I was done with the relationship and my ex told me he tried to get me pregnant so I would stay with him🤬. I told his dumb ass it would not of worked. we would have brought up a child in a fucked up environment and going back-and-forth for fucking visitation. He did me so dirty I would not keep the kid from him but trust and believe that would not keep us together. And what kind of life would that be for a baby no this people need to fucking think like that shit makes me mad 😡.
If someone did that they would be a completely crazy bitch and I feel bad for whatever guy is with her
They do it all the time. Over half of births in the US are 'unplanned' (unplanned by the male, they mean).
This is why I use burner phones, give roasties a fake name, and don't mess with those that live within easy driving distance of the city I live in.
Its manipulative and rather evil, but sometimes its his fault for not wearing a condom
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Nah. Even if I was cruel enough to do that which I hope I'm not, I'm smart enough to know that a child wouldn't force my partner to stay. He grew up with his parents divorced at an early age and then with his father dead, he knows that parents don't have to be together to raise a child well.
My ex got me pregnant on purpose. I still left. We share custody. It wasn’t so I would stay, it was a control thing with him.
I love our daughter, but I hate him with everything in me.
The sad part is that he doesn’t even want to be a parent most of the time. Just when he can get the “aww, what a good dad you are” comments. Otherwise he ignores her, even when she’s with him.
I love my kid, but I hate him for what he did to me, and what he does to her.
Absolutely not, never ever. I think that is a truly abhorrent thing to do- selfish, irresponsible, reckless, and manipulative. That’s absolutely no way to treat someone you love. You are violating their right to choose for themselves whether they want kids. How would these women feel if their partner poked a hole in the condom to secretly get them pregnant?
Nope. I don't want anyone in my child's life who doesn't want to be there. Besides, he could totally step up and be a father, and still refuse to be in a relationship with me. A baby doesn't guarantee that we'll stay together. In fact, babies only make relationships more challenging. It's something I'd highly recommend waiting until you ALREADY have a sturdy, committed relationship.
Okay first of all, no. Saying that the guy should "wear a condom" isn't his issue because you TRUSTED your girlfriend to be on BC because she told you she was. If it was accidental, it'd be understandable.
I would never trap someone like that, it's disgusting and just- no. Someone would have trusted me enough not to shit on their dreams, and to not bring a child into this world as a tool. If I did it would be because I'm selfish and pathetic.
No. What if he decides to dip anyway? Then I'm single and have a fucking baby.
What makes those girls think they won't be another single mother? LOL
He can still bail out. Sure, the state can force him to pay for child support but in the end, the woman is almost always stucked raising a baby for 18 years.
No, that's a really shit thing to do. It's not cool to have a baby that you don't really want and it's really not cool to have a baby with someone that doesn't want to be with you, you're just making the kid's life harder than it needs to be
Opposite, even if I wanted a baby I wouldn't take the iud out. He's been saying he wants a baby for years but if he really wanted it he'll figure out a way to take it out. So I assume he's not serious.
I think that’s one of the most idiotic things you can do. It just screams controlling and insecurity in the relationship, not to mention selfishness.
No that's dumb to me if I'm not ready for a kid myself I'm not gna try to use that to jeep someone with me. If someone is gna leave they gna leave regardless whether a baby involved or not
What is wrong with some women! Like seriously! 😒 The people who suffer the most are the children who result from these 'accidents'. Every child should feel lovingly planned for, and wanted!
Any intelligent woman would know this won't make a man stay. If problems exist, a baby isn't going to change anything... except your sleeping schedule.
No. I wouldn't fucking do it that's horrible; and I'd only get pregnant unless I really knew I could look after it and my partner wanted to.
You can't trap a guy to stay with you. You just trap them to be in your life. They can easily break up and get a new girlfriend.
no. lots of guys wouldn't feel obliged to get married based off of that anyways
I would never, that's evil wtf, who wants to live a lie, i'll feel extremely guilty and the truth always comes out, nothing stays hidden forever.
women who do that r idiots they be stuck with the child and the men leaves em
So silly. I knew a girl who did that and the guy dumped her the moment he found out.
I have not, but is it a trap if you want another baby and not the man and you don’t lie about birth control but you just know he has good genes and he is sloppy about birth control?
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