Ladies would you get pregnant on purpose to "Trap" your S/O. And guys how would you react if your girlfriend did this to you?

[El_Prez]

Ladies would you get pregnant on purpose to "Trap" your S/O. And guys how would you react if your girlfriend did this to you?

[GeminiHa]

I'm not sure. I don't really like the idea since if my significant other wants to let go I'll let him. I don't want to be trapped in a bad relationship. But no matter what you can't change that your partner is pregnant but most of all it's your child. You still helped in creating a baby its best if you can take the responsibility seriously. You don't need to be really as in together to both take care of your child, right? No matter what happens that child is innocent dont involve him or her on your problem guys. Are you sure though? Maybe the pills just didn't work?

[El_Prez]

These were actual confessions of women who purposely got pregnant to "trap" their boyfriend into staying with them because they knew he wouldn't leave once a baby was involved.

[GeminiHa]

Hmm they can take care of the baby even if they are not in a relationship. It can work out that way unless the girl actually would rather for his son or daughter to not have a father than for the guy to leave cause that's a whole other story. It would be immature for the part of the woman but we don't really know the whole story so I don't think it would be completely right to judge them.

[El_Prez]

No these are ACTUAL confessions for the sole purpose to get the guy to stay with them. This was posted on a facebook page. There are a lot more but I only choose 3, but its all real and not just something made up.

[GeminiHa]

I know that its real but what I mean is that everything has a reason to it. It's wrong but I was never on their shoes (*thank heavens) I just don't want to judge them right away.

[jessie8889]

Omg that is so fucking stupid. I’m not going to lie iv been there before. I was done with the relationship and my ex told me he tried to get me pregnant so I would stay with him🤬. I told his dumb ass it would not of worked. we would have brought up a child in a fucked up environment and going back-and-forth for fucking visitation. He did me so dirty I would not keep the kid from him but trust and believe that would not keep us together. And what kind of life would that be for a baby no this people need to fucking think like that shit makes me mad 😡.

[El_Prez]

Thanks for your comment. :)

[abbabygirl]

If someone did that they would be a completely crazy bitch and I feel bad for whatever guy is with her

[ChronicThinker]

Wisdom ^

[Anonymous]

They do it all the time. Over half of births in the US are 'unplanned' (unplanned by the male, they mean).

This is why I use burner phones, give roasties a fake name, and don't mess with those that live within easy driving distance of the city I live in.

[GeminiHa]

Look at the girls comments

[LegateLanius]

Its manipulative and rather evil, but sometimes its his fault for not wearing a condom

[El_Prez]

What if the girl said she was on BC?

[LegateLanius]

I would still wear a condom unless i wanted kids

[fauchelevent]

Nah. Even if I was cruel enough to do that which I hope I'm not, I'm smart enough to know that a child wouldn't force my partner to stay. He grew up with his parents divorced at an early age and then with his father dead, he knows that parents don't have to be together to raise a child well.

[StellaGreenEyes]

My ex got me pregnant on purpose. I still left. We share custody. It wasn’t so I would stay, it was a control thing with him.

I love our daughter, but I hate him with everything in me.

The sad part is that he doesn’t even want to be a parent most of the time. Just when he can get the “aww, what a good dad you are” comments. Otherwise he ignores her, even when she’s with him.

I love my kid, but I hate him for what he did to me, and what he does to her.

[samhradh_leannan]

Absolutely not, never ever. I think that is a truly abhorrent thing to do- selfish, irresponsible, reckless, and manipulative. That’s absolutely no way to treat someone you love. You are violating their right to choose for themselves whether they want kids. How would these women feel if their partner poked a hole in the condom to secretly get them pregnant?

[samhradh_leannan]

And as others have said, a baby doesn’t force him to stay anyway.

[snowangle]

Nope. I don't want anyone in my child's life who doesn't want to be there. Besides, he could totally step up and be a father, and still refuse to be in a relationship with me. A baby doesn't guarantee that we'll stay together. In fact, babies only make relationships more challenging. It's something I'd highly recommend waiting until you ALREADY have a sturdy, committed relationship.

[PrincessBunBuns]

Okay first of all, no. Saying that the guy should "wear a condom" isn't his issue because you TRUSTED your girlfriend to be on BC because she told you she was. If it was accidental, it'd be understandable.

I would never trap someone like that, it's disgusting and just- no. Someone would have trusted me enough not to shit on their dreams, and to not bring a child into this world as a tool. If I did it would be because I'm selfish and pathetic.

[ChronicThinker]

No. What if he decides to dip anyway? Then I'm single and have a fucking baby.

[El_Prez]

True

[Vesuvius87]

What makes those girls think they won't be another single mother? LOL
He can still bail out. Sure, the state can force him to pay for child support but in the end, the woman is almost always stucked raising a baby for 18 years.

[Vesuvius87]

If you ask me, not only is it manipulative but that's the most stupidest idea a woman can have.

[RuthAnn1781]

No, that's a really shit thing to do. It's not cool to have a baby that you don't really want and it's really not cool to have a baby with someone that doesn't want to be with you, you're just making the kid's life harder than it needs to be

[Onlythisone]

Opposite, even if I wanted a baby I wouldn't take the iud out. He's been saying he wants a baby for years but if he really wanted it he'll figure out a way to take it out. So I assume he's not serious.

[AzureGirl]

I think that’s one of the most idiotic things you can do. It just screams controlling and insecurity in the relationship, not to mention selfishness.

[deraz24]

No that's dumb to me if I'm not ready for a kid myself I'm not gna try to use that to jeep someone with me. If someone is gna leave they gna leave regardless whether a baby involved or not

[Poppykate]

What is wrong with some women! Like seriously! 😒 The people who suffer the most are the children who result from these 'accidents'. Every child should feel lovingly planned for, and wanted!

[Js138]

Any intelligent woman would know this won't make a man stay. If problems exist, a baby isn't going to change anything... except your sleeping schedule.

[lilaqua]

No. I wouldn't fucking do it that's horrible; and I'd only get pregnant unless I really knew I could look after it and my partner wanted to.

[bloodyrevenge]

You can't trap a guy to stay with you. You just trap them to be in your life. They can easily break up and get a new girlfriend.

[karahiri]

no. lots of guys wouldn't feel obliged to get married based off of that anyways

[Kat_puppies]

women who do that r idiots they be stuck with the child and the men leaves em

[Nina12346]

I would never, that's evil wtf, who wants to live a lie, i'll feel extremely guilty and the truth always comes out, nothing stays hidden forever.

[Anonymous]

So silly. I knew a girl who did that and the guy dumped her the moment he found out.

[Anonymous]

I have not, but is it a trap if you want another baby and not the man and you don’t lie about birth control but you just know he has good genes and he is sloppy about birth control?

[WingGirl]

Hell no. That shit traps girls more than guys.

[Zelian12]

What do you mean?

[Emilysmith1]

That the guy will be out of there really fast and then you r stuck with a kid?

[WingGirl]

A kid changes everything for a woman. Our chemistry, our bodies, our minds. Even if the guy does stick around, if he isn't the right one having his kid could damn you to playing pretend for life. Cause who wants to be the one to walk out on a "happy family".

[samhradh_leannan]

This is actually true. Yes it’s very unfair to the guy, but it doesn’t actually trap him. He can still leave the relationship. He is trapped in parenthood though, but it’s easier for him to escape that than it is for the mom, unless she terminated the pregnancy.

[Zelian12]

A woman has complete control once pregnant. Even if she doesn’t want to get an abortion, many countries allow newborns to be abandoned no questions asked. Guys on the other hand are stuck with whatever the woman wants. Him wanting to be a father can't stop her from aborting his baby. And if he doesn't want to be a parent, but the woman does, the man is still financially responsible for the next two decades

[WingGirl]

Abandoned? You mean given up for adoption. Probably better than murder.

[Zelian12]

I’m mimicking the language written into the law. In new york its called the “abandoned infant protection act”

[WingGirl]

Well that is probably a law I will see in just as poor a light as you do. My point still has validity though. Any woman having a baby to secure a relationship with a man actually damns herself aswell because that is not the right way to enter the commitment of creating a life. And if you are a woman of any conscious that baby will change you and tie you down to its needs before yours. Which will be much harder to bear without a good male partner that you count on.

[likelyOK]

I definitely think that is real

[john76]

a lot of women do this to trap her bed partner.

[GeminiHa]

Not a lot. Especially if they are smart enough hmm look at the girls comments

[john76]

I read comments from women here. The reality is even young women have babies for two reasons. They get money and force a relationship on a man. Many women already know this.

[GeminiHa]

I'm sorry to say this but it's kind of..-I don't want to it- I guess it's the reality that it happens not that I approve of it cause it won't really lead into a happy relationship if you are just there for the baby. They may get the stability yes those types of women. Thankfully not everyone is like that cause if you become pregnant in this age or if you are young, pretty much meant responsibility, possibility of giving up on school -you'll rely more on the guy and that's not pretty-, a lot of people would think you are a uhm slut... they'll say a lot of bad things about you, you don't really get a good reputation for it. So they should be smart enough to know the cons and what they are getting into. No offense but my family might disown me if that happens, not that I do it.

[El_Prez]

@GeminiHa The guys don't know that their gfs did this. They honestly think it happen naturally when it really didn't. But yes its messed up.

[john76]

You make some good points. Your right about not everyone is that way.

[Amanduh24]

no, i wouldn't go through the trouble

[Anonymous]

Yes I would

[El_Prez]

okay then.. lol