Guys, Would you get a girl pregnant so she won't leave you?

[Anonymous]

You really "love" her n you don't want no one else to be with her, and the only way she'd stay with you if she had a baby.. and she didn't want to be with you anymore because how you treated her (treated her like you didn't care and stuff and acted like if you wasn't taking the relationship serious but you was ) , would you get her pregnant on purpose.. or do you think that will make her still love you.

[NearlyNapping]

Hell no. That's not saying it has never happened to anyone. But it takes a pretty screwed up person to do something like that. That is such twisted thinking that the girls should run as fast as she can and never look back. A guy like that is just way to messed up to safely be around.

[JuicyBrain]

That is the stupidest move in this universe ! It just DOESN'T WORK ! Actually, more couples who had kids to stay together separate then the couples who didn't have kids. It's just... Oh man. It's just stupid on so many levels...

[Asker]

What if he really loves her?

[JuicyBrain]

It does not make it a better move believe me. It's still very, very stupid.
It's nice that he loves you, but it's the worse reason EVER to make a child. These guys often realise too late that their immaturity makes them bad father material and they just leave you with the child. They don't want a child, they want to keep you. The child is a tool, a way to try to keep you, but it doesn't work.

If he ever decides that he wants a kid because he WANTS a kid, then maybe you can start thinking about having a child. Having a child needs preparation. Having a child is like getting married to someone you just cannot divorce from EVER. It's not like a tattoo that you can get removed. It's permanent, permanently. Be SURE you know what you are getting into. Don't bring another loveless child into this world please...

[Illusive_Man]

No.
GOOOD NO.
FUUUCKING HELL NOOo.
That's creepy.
Holy shit that's creepy.
HELL NO.

Bringing a person into the world as a bargaining chip. That's lowest of the low.

[alecz]

Getting her pregnant won't make her love you and it certainly won't let her stay. You'll only create a family and bring a child in this world for the wrong reason. Have a child when you are financially stable and with someone who you don't doubt, so that you are sure your child will have a stable life and not having to navigate step parents and additions to the family.

[CityBoy773]

Hell no. What the hell do I look like getting a girl pregnant and trying to trap her with my kid just so I can't lose her? No. That's irresponsible on so many levels.

[longjohndan]

Never... To me that's like asking if you would voluntarily lock yourself in jail and then give half of everything you have for the remainder of your life to someone that will resent you for existing.

[Bandit74]

Generally girls are the ones that try to use a baby to get their boyfriend to stay.

[tenchu11]

I wouldn't do it but I can see some guys doing it. Just like some woman "forget" to take their birth control pills.

[Pyrofox]

Hell no you pamper and love her I'd never do it not until I knew I could feed the little kid.

[zorro8888]

That sounds like an expensive mistake.
Worst idea I've heard.

[Anonymous]

NO. NO NO NO NO NO NO.

I'd rather not pay child support. WTF about this do women not understand?

That shit's a female tactic.

[Michael_Rc46]

That's just stupid. A child is just a wildcard now? I know a girl who did it to a guy though